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Last year I moved 800 miles away from my family to be with my long distance boyfriend. I love him and he has been everything I could have wanted, though we are often hurting for money. He has been on misdemeanor probation since January and was supposed to get off on August ninth. Last Friday he got arrested unfairly (someone witnessed us in a VERBAL argument and called the police, the police arrived and told me they believed I was being abused, though I obviously told them I was not) and arrested him for domestic battery. I have been by his side every day and night for almost a year and don't know how to function being apart from him. Then Monday I was in a car accident and totaled his car, which was my only vehicle. I am currently staying with a friend's relative and relying on her for transportation, and only have a part time, low paying job. It feels like everything in my life just started coming apart at once. I miss my boyfriend so much it's physically painful. We have a no contact order and I have no idea how long he is going to be in jail for, as this violated his probation. I am thankful that I have the help that I do but I have no money, and I was technically at fault for the accident (it was raining, my brake light had been on for days but no money to have them fixed, and they gave out on me) so I got four points on my license and a ticket I have to pay. I don't know how I'm going to recover from this with no money I can't afford a new vehicle, I can't stay here very long, and I'm an emotional wreck over my boyfriend. It took me 3 days just to be able to eat again. I don't know what I'm going to do but I feel helpless and hopeless. I know my situation isn't the end of the world but right now it hurts like hell and I'm terrified of what the future might hold. If I can't get another vehicle and my boyfriend stays in jail I may have to go back to my family, which would mean leaving the love of my life and best friend 800 miles away in a jail cell. That would kill me. I feel like I have nothing without him and I don't know what to do or how to handle this kind of emotional pain and the amount of stress I'm going through right now. I know the good Lord has a plan but I just don't see why he had to take my boyfriend away from me..if he wasn't in jail, I wouldn't be worried one bit about the car, because with him I can face anything. But apart from, him, I'm just a sad, lonely wreck.
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Profile Photo by dolphin007 ANGEL24K (309k points)   7 7 12
Greetings anonymous... try to click on the URL that will surely heal your mind, body & soul...


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Heal me, O Lord, and I shall be healed; save me, and I shall be saved, for you are my praise.

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He himself bore our sins in his body on the tree, that we might die to sin and live to righteousness. By his wounds you have been healed.

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Behold, I will bring to it health and healing, and I will heal them and reveal to them abundance of prosperity and security.

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But he was wounded for our transgressions; he was crushed for our iniquities; upon him was the chastisement that brought us peace, and with his stripes we are healed.

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Bless the Lord, O my soul, and forget not all his benefits, who forgives all your iniquity, who heals all your diseases, who redeems your life from the pit, who crowns you with steadfast love and mercy,

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Profile Photo by Jones ANGEL14K+ (15.6k points)   3 7 24
hi there,
sorry, just read this now....but, seeing as you posted this a few days ago, id be really interested to hear how you are feeling now, or if there have been any new developments. sometimes, just chatting to a stranger can be a real help, so if yuou d like to, please do private message me and just talk about how youre coping and i'll do my best to offer advice as and when you need it.

have you heard any more about how long he may be held for?

we can get you through this, one step at a time. it may take a while for you to feel happy again, but lets have a chat and tell me about yourself and we can work this out together. youre not alone, I promise.
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Profile Photo by HOPE ANGEL24K (66.2k points)   7 11 38
If you truly believe that the police was making up this charge against your boyfriend, you could request free (pro bono) legal help from your state.

At the same time, I hope you realize that love could be blind. It could be indeed domestic violence against you and you just don't realize it or choose to ignore it or simply blame yourself for it. Even verbal abuse could create severe damage. And I doubt normal verbal argument would result in a no contact order.

If you can ask yourself to be calm and try to look at this from a different angle, maybe you find out that the police was trying to protect you.

At this time, you need lots of support from your friends and family. I encourage you going back to them at this difficult time at least temporary. If it is true love, 800 miles would only make it stronger.

You are right. The good lord has a plan, so please trust that he has been loving and protecting you. You need to calm down, take a break, back to your family ... It will take time, but you will see.

Give yourself a big hug. You can find love and strength within!!

May angels around!


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