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I'm always the second best choice, never first. I always get shafted or the alternate. Theres no point of being here If im never going to be good enough for anyone or anything. My life has no purpose. Besides hurting my family and friends that are non-existant, why should I be here? if someone's always going to be a better than me why am I needed?

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Profile Photo by angel ANGEL7000+ (7.9k points)   3 5 15
We are all here with a purpose, and we don’t need to be the best of all to fulfill these purposes. We are the best for our own purposes.

Your life is precious. Please don’t use the past or current situation to judge your future!

We just need to continue to improve ourselves everyday … There will be more than one person who will tell you that “You are the best!” in the future.
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Profile Photo by Ellison ANGEL2000+ (2.1k points)   1 6
Don't feel like you have no ourpose ie are less than adequate. God has placed you here and He has a purpose for you. If you weren't best at what you've tried so far that only means God has something for you that you will overly excell at. You have to options here, defeat yourself and stall the great future God has for You or dig your heels in and say I know I'm great because God says so. I would strongly suggest you do the latter of the two. I can guarantee that not only will you feel better about yourself but you will start to see a huge change in your life. The power of life,death,success and defeat is all in our words. After all, God spoke the universe into existence. Put God 1st, tell yourself how special you are, trust God and give Him praise even when times are hard and rest assured that you will become greater than you can imagine. If you haven't accepted Jesus in your heart I would make that a starting point. It's really simple and if you want I'll walk you through it. Next, change how you speak of yourself and allow Him to work on you from the inside. Read the bible, it says a lot about God's feelings toward the brokenhearted, you already have His ear. His heart goes to the brokenhearted and He won't delay His grace if you ask. But don't just take my word for it, even though He has definitely worked for me, see for yourself. I mean you've tried being depressed, why not try God? He can fix it. Believe me your life has purpose and You are very special. I'll be praying for you. I love you but Jesus loves you to no end.
Profile Photo by Brown (190 points)   2 3
I think the fact that you feel there are people out there that are better than you is not entirely true maybe its the person thats not good enough for you? i just lost my gf and im destroyed by it i lost her to my best friend hes stronger and older and funnier i guess and it makes me feel small and i cant live without this girl but at the end of the day if i stop and look around i know people who like me and maybe they arnt as good as my gf but who cares? people like us are the people who know emotion and you know who you are and what you can do its always better if your with someone who understands you and likes you for who you are not what you have because that will destroy you over time because if you lose what you had why would that person want you?? i think you should just slow the pace down i dont think my advice is as good as other peoples but im having a hard time too with life being second best and im finding it easier to just slow down take a breath and see what else i can do yanno? if ya wanna talk some more youve got my email we have stuff in common but we can always be our best we just have to try
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Profile Photo by karajko ANGEL500 (590 points)   4

I have felt just like you, when I was younger.

So much that I have run away from home to a different country.

But then I still got the same treatment.

It was a torture.

10 years later I have realized by now, that all I had to go through shaped me into a

kinder, and a more humble person.

While we are young it is the time for being shaped, and learning about what is good and bad.

Let me send you a little story. This guy was also not very lucky at first. But see what happened:)

Love, Judit
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Profile Photo by dolphin007 ANGEL24K (297k points)   7 7 12

1. Anima Christi

Soul of Christ, sanctify me; Body of Christ, save me; Blood of Christ, inebriate me; Water from the side of Christ, wash me; Passion of Christ, strengthen me; O good Jesus, hear me; within Thy wounds, hide me; let me never be separated from Thee; from the evil one, deliver me; at the hour of my death, call me and bid me come to Thee, that with Thy saints, I may praise Thee forever and ever. Amen.

2. Prayer Against Malefice from the Greek Ritual

God, our Lord, King of ages, All-powerful and All-mighty, You Who made everything and Who transform everything simply by Your will. You Who in Babylon changed into dew the flames of the ‘seven-times hotter’ furnace and protected and saved the three holy children. You are the doctor and the physician of our soul. You are the salvation of those who turn to You.

We beseech You to make powerless, banish, and drive out every diabolic power, presence, and machination; every evil influence, malefice, or evil eye and all evil actions aimed against Your servant [name of person/s]. Where there is envy and malice, give us an abundance of goodness, endurance, victory, and charity.

O Lord, You Who love man, we beg You to reach out Your powerful hands and Your most high and mighty arms and send the angel of peace over us, to protect us, body and soul. May he keep at bay and vanquish every evil power, every poison or malice invoked against us by corrupt and envious people.

Then, under the protection of Your authority may we sing, in gratitude, ‘The Lord is my salvation; whom should I fear? I will not fear evil because You are with me, my God, my strength, my powerful Lord, Lord of peace, Father of all ages.”

Yes, Lord our God, be merciful to us, Your image, and save your servant [name of person/s] from every threat or harm from the evil one, and protect him/her by raising him/her above all evil. We ask You this through the intercession of our Most Blessed, glorious Lady, Mary ever Virgin, Mother of God, of the most splendid archangels and all Your saints. Amen!

3. Prayer for Deliverance

My Lord, you are all powerful, you are God, you are Father. We beg you through the intercession and help of the archangels Michael, Raphael and Gabriel, for the deliverance of our brothers and sisters who are enslaved by the evil one. All saints of Heaven, come to our aid.

From anxiety, sadness and obsessions, we beg You. Free us, O Lord. From hatred, fornication, envy, we beg You, Free us, O Lord. From thoughts of jealousy, rage, and death, we beg You, Free us, O Lord. From every thought of suicide and abortion, we beg You, Free us, O Lord. From every form of sinful sexuality, we beg You, Free us, O Lord.

From every division in our family, and every harmful friendship, we beg You, Free us, O Lord. From every sort of spell, malefic, witchcraft, and every form of the occult, we beg You, Free us, O Lord.

Lord, You Who said, “I leave you peace, My peace I give you,” grant that, through the intercession of the Virgin Mary, we may be liberated from every evil spell and enjoy your peace always. In the name of Christ, our Lord. Amen.

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