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For over a year I have been haunted by my ex boyfriend and what he did to me, I hate him he made me do things I didn't want to do, he forced me into things and made me send him things which were then shown to half the school which puts me down even more I hate him and now I keep relapsing into the same state I was in a year ago and it hurts so much to think he thinks he has a right to keep popping up and asking for the same things now even though I already have a boyfriend he gives me flashbacks every time I see him every time he tries to get close to me he freaks me out knowing that I am haunted by my past yet still insists on trying because he didn't get all he wanted from me I hate how he used me I hate how he keeps trying even though we are both in new relationships after he cheated on me and broke up with me he is way to open with everything about him he doesn't care that he already has kids even at the age of fifteen he just doesn't care about anyone else but himself, when we were together he wanted us to be a secret just so he could use me more he made me relapse so badly I just wanted to end my life I found hope in a new guy after that but we didn't last long which I felt was my fault but now i'm in a 7 month relationship and he still thinks that its ok to just use me and make me feel like s***t or try to he only wants one thing and that's what he never got from me and I feel he just wont stop until he gets it. I can hardly get close to anyone anymore without feeling like they may just use me like he did and that's why im in a long distance relationship because im scared i'll be used all over again I don't know how much more I can take I feel horrible about myself and I never want to see him again yet I see him, nearly everyday which is even worse as he is in my form and I keep getting flashbacks even now after a year it kills me still I didn't really love him the way he thought I did I did love him at first until everything happened when I tried breaking up with him he wouldn't allow me to and he would just come up with a lot of excuses and be like he first was I tried to leave but he forced me to stay all the time even with *** stories and when he left he just left I didn't try to stop him there was no point in me trying to I hated him yet he would still get me back because he couldn't get what he wanted I think that was why we lasted so long because he wanted something and stayed until he got it and he still didn't I just need help getting over it I hate him I just hate how he stole away part of my innocence he's just made me feel disgusted with myself I cant begin to explain what ive done since then but even at fifteen im becoming a bit of an alcoholic and an anorexic I don't know what to do I just want to destroy my body so much I need help but I fear I cant be saved
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Greetings anonymous... try to click on the URL that will surely heal your mind, body & soul...


Verses in the Holy Bible about healing:

Isaiah 41:10 ESV / 376 helpful votes

Fear not, for I am with you; be not dismayed, for I am your God; I will strengthen you, I will help you, I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.

Jeremiah 17:14 ESV / 314 helpful votes

Heal me, O Lord, and I shall be healed; save me, and I shall be saved, for you are my praise.

1 Peter 2:24 ESV / 277 helpful votes

He himself bore our sins in his body on the tree, that we might die to sin and live to righteousness. By his wounds you have been healed.

Jeremiah 33:6 ESV / 262 helpful votes

Behold, I will bring to it health and healing, and I will heal them and reveal to them abundance of prosperity and security.

Isaiah 53:5 ESV / 251 helpful votes

But he was wounded for our transgressions; he was crushed for our iniquities; upon him was the chastisement that brought us peace, and with his stripes we are healed.

Psalm 103:2-4 ESV / 231 helpful votes

Bless the Lord, O my soul, and forget not all his benefits, who forgives all your iniquity, who heals all your diseases, who redeems your life from the pit, who crowns you with steadfast love and mercy,

James 5:15 ESV / 209 helpful votes

And the prayer of faith will save the one who is sick, and the Lord will raise him up. And if he has committed sins, he will be forgiven.

James 5:14 ESV / 150 helpful votes

Is anyone among you sick? Let him call for the elders of the church, and let them pray over him, anointing him with oil in the name of the Lord.

James 5:16 ESV / 143 helpful votes

Therefore, confess your sins to one another and pray for one another, that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous person has great power as it is working.

3 John 1:2 ESV / 126 helpful votes

Beloved, I pray that all may go well with you and that you may be in good health, as it goes well with your soul.

Proverbs 17:22 ESV / 114 helpful votes

A joyful heart is good medicine, but a crushed spirit dries up the bones.

Matthew 10:1 ESV / 111 helpful votes

And he called to him his twelve disciples and gave them authority over unclean spirits, to cast them out, and to heal every disease and every affliction.

Psalm 147:3 ESV / 110 helpful votes

He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds.

Matthew 10:8 ESV / 107 helpful votes

Heal the sick, raise the dead, cleanse lepers, cast out demons. You received without paying; give without pay.

Deuteronomy 7:15 ESV / 97 helpful votes

And the Lord will take away from you all sickness, and none of the evil diseases of Egypt, which you knew, will he inflict on you, but he will lay them on all who hate you.

Philippians 4:19 ESV / 86 helpful votes

And my God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus.

Psalm 41:3 ESV / 85 helpful votes

The Lord sustains him on his sickbed; in his illness you restore him to full health.

Proverbs 4:20-22 ESV / 71 helpful votes

My son, be attentive to my words; incline your ear to my sayings. Let them not escape from your sight; keep them within your heart. For they are life to those who find them, and healing to all their flesh.
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Everything is going to turn out ok but you need to ditch the loser ex boyfriend and concentrate on yourself for a while first. Before you can love someone else, you need to love yourself!. I have been in the same situation and I know how you feel but things will get better with time. You need to let go of the past and focus on learning to love yourself first. There are great clips on YouTube on loving yourself and a book called " You can heal your life" by Louise L hay, and other self love books free of charge in the library. Your ex boyfriend does not own you and he has no right to control you. If you feel threatened please go to a trusted teacher or parent and tell them what is going on. Please seek help, you could call life line for a chat if you are feeling alone. Alcohol is not a answer, it will just create more problems in your life. You need to ask your friends and family for help. You sound like a really nice girl and I pray you get the help you need soon, God bless you!!!

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