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Living with me and his 8yr old son, my 46yr old son was fired from his job because he told his boss f### you when asked to go home because he reeked of alcohol from the night before. Police were called to trespass and as he left to go home (less than a mile) he refused to stop when Police with red lights instructed him to do so. (going 5 mph) 3 Police cars following, he was arrested. This was in September, 2015. Now 2 yrs probation, license revoked except Hardship License granted. Because of his bad choice, my life is screwed up. No money coming in, I'm on Soc. Security and my whole life ***** is in turmoil. I am constantly angry, I don't know how to deal with this problem. How can I cope with his anger and my anger due to his stupidity. I want to disappear but I can't because of my grandson. What's to do?????
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Profile Photo by dolphin007 ANGEL24K (280k points)   7 7 12
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Profile Photo by Jones ANGEL14K+ (15.6k points)   3 7 24
hi suzi,
I think the best thing you can do here is to bhelp your son to get back to work and earning money again. from there, he probably needs to regain his independence and move out with his son. this way, things can become settled again and you still see your grandson. obviously I don't know your situation and why youre angry, but you need space too and this seems like the logical plan to you both moving forward.

what do you think?
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Dear Friend, I appreciate your reply & I do agree, but as the saying goes "you can lead a horse to water but you can't make him drink". He is "always angry & negative" and he attitude effects me & my grandson. I took him to pay his court fees & you could cut the negativity with a knife. At this moment he is sitting at the table watching TV. If I say anything to him he will respond with an attitude!!! This is what I deal with every day, every hour. I ask about working for a company & his response is he's a felon & they won't hire him. He refuses to work minimum wage. I will update his resume, he doesn't know how to use a computer hardly at all. There again, I'm at wits end. I am 66 & at what point do I stop? I have to protect my grandson. His mother lost custody. I keep telling myself "Trust in God" & I do. I need a sign to give me strength. I have no one!!!! Thanks for your attention to my situation.
Profile Photo by Jones ANGEL14K+ (15.6k points)   3 7 24
stay strong there - all you can do is to try, even if its you doing 99% of the work here, but as you sais, you need to and want to protect your grandson and to give him the best start in life you can and to show him the correct path in life. stick in there, even when things get tough and know deep down inside yourself that youre doing the right thing, even if it isn't being appreciated.
youre looking at the bigger picture and that's very very commendable. I think youre brilliant!

do let me know how things progress if you would like to keep in touch

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