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I've recently lost my marriage, my job, and my son. I felt is was best for my son to be with his mother under no notion of his circumstances. See, after my wife and I separated - I calmly left the home to benefit my son from shouting. I had to leave my job to tend to my son for his securement. Meanwhile I made my stay at my parents home at the age of 28. That was a hard, humbling thing to do. As days and months have gone by, I've tirelessly tried and tried again, over and over, to find a career while my mother helped with my son's care.

See, I was an over the road truck driver and had to stay away for a while at a time. In order for me to give my son proper care, when my separated wife couldn't at the time, the court told me that I needed to find a different career instead.

That being said, time went by and my mom has always suffered for an untreated mental illness. She's very pessimistic and will say horrible things about you. One day she's your number 1 support. The next, after spilling to her information that she can use against you; she uses that information to tear your down by gaining leverage against you. It's a really difficult thing to explain, but a very sick thing to explain none the less.

It's resulted in me locking myself in my room, my father doing the same. My father has integrity, he hasn't dismissed her even though she's plagued his life as much if not more than mine. She'll do anything she can to devastatingly hurt someone for no reason. (not in a physical way) It's as if her mind is in an alternate reality and doesn't understand what she says or does. I think that's why my father feels for her even though she tells him some of the most sickest, awefulest things. She's pure evil in my book.

As a Christian man, a lover and follower of Jesus Christ - I've pleaded with God time and time again to help me get out of this situation that I'm in, to help me get back on my feet. The next thing you know, without ever me saying hurtful things to my mother, or ever physically touching her, she has a protective order filed on me.

Today, I write this to you as a homeless man of the age 28, who has lost it all. Everything I've worked to achieve has deflated or disappeared. Fortunately my sister and her husband has allowed my stay in there home in a different state for a short time; to gather my thoughts and find a successful career.

The time is drawing closer and running out. My options are almost expired.

I'm good with IT work, I have a Class A license, I've been a CNA nurse, good with graphics like photoshop and lightroom. My options to get back in the game are just running thing. Every door keeps closing and none are opening.

I just need help with someone helping me to find a great paying career to help me get out of this horrible hole I'm in. Sometimes, I feel exactly like Job in the Bible. I really need a miracle and a chance to prove myself.

Thanks for reading, and for your concerns. I thank you from the bottom of my heart if you have any leads to any opportunities along the east coast. I'm willing to relocate and train.

Thank you again,

Country: United States

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Hi Guys
I’m am addressing  two guys of whom I have just read their messages on this website, I am in the same or similar situation as yourselves certainly not a good place to be “eh” so I just thought a problem shared a problem hafted when the depression starts to get me and the tears swell up, I take the positive action, I too am a Christen thou I get doubts often , but then I get stubborn believe me when I say I’ve had my up’s and downs with the Boss upstairs’ and I can’t work out weather I am going completely mad or it makes me stronger to go on, each day I find reasons to fight on keep pushing on, of course if you believe in angels, then you got someone else to blame which is handy for letting off steam and your frustration, probably like yourselves I  spend alot of time on the computer (which takes a bit of bashing sometimes),as for the lord I can tell you that he there, I’m English and been through a conflict and two wars and I saw the bravest pray and start believing when they got back to their families, once I was also comatose on a life support machine for three weeks with my wife and daughter praying at the foot of my bed ,I was in a place where I saw angels you make of that whatever you want. But that the same wife ,daughter and now son that give me the strength every morning to fight on, “heck” with them behind me I fight the devil himself, I said that I am Christen, but I’m not church man, and I don’t go for half the stuff they spout on about, just know there is something there and it strong, having said that praying or just talking with the Boss does not help me out much, maybe I not very high on his list as I have not been a angel all my life ,so I am not the one to give you advice, I can only tell you keep in there, don’t give up you got people who believe in the guys who believe in you they are your christens they got faith in you, tears of a clown it hard being a bread winner, to keep myself positive I kick myself into a good mood play music I like, do things I like ,go places I like , don’t let the bad things in. Ideas I have had, find people the same as me talk things out, exchange, compare thoughts and ideas , plans (you will not keep to them, but make them anyway) believe in yourselves, reading your messages I get the feeling you boys have accessed your situations you just need somewhere to **** your heads , dream sure, they only work if you go out and make them work, I could go on but it getting late (or early) I getting tired and I still resumes to sent for somebody spam box, and I think you got the idea by now, you are not alone find others talk it out, help others and you will find your own strength .
Good Luck
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keep reminding yourself of people in the Bible.  Someone else to remember I find is Joseph.  He had his Mom die when he was ten - 16, a father who favored him above the rest, ten older brothers who hated him and sold him into slavery, a boss's wife that lied about every one - check it out, Potipher was the chief executioner, but he didn't kill Joseph when his wife complained, and she changed the story with her servans than with him -, a person who forgot him, and he completely forgave them in his heart.
Another person is Jesus.  He came to make the way to get your sins forgiven and go to heaven, and they mocked him, an disbelieved him.  The worst that anyone can do is allowed by God, who will only allow it to go according to his plan.  All he has to work with are us, and we are all far from perfect.  Romans 3:23, "For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God." Revelations 21:8, "But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death."  Romans 5:7,8,"For scarcely for a righteous man will one die: yet peradventure for a good man some would even dare to die. But God commendeth his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us."  Romans 6:23, "For the wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord."  Romans 10:9, "That if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved."
We all do not know exactly what the other person is going through, though we may have similarities.  My mom has thyroid problems, and she is very suspicious of every thing.  It sounds  similar of yours.  My advice is to stay focused on God, for he is our strength.  I would suggest reading in the psalms.
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Become a gardner, work for yourself, stay fit and it can all start with a lawnmower.
Look up youtube videos about how to start lawn care business, and see what the successful businesses did and do... good luck mate to you and your family.

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