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I was engaged for 7 years, things just kept getting messed up . He was the first man I ever loved and he finally gave up on me because I would not move in with him, I guess I was scared of being hurt or my fear of leaving my own house. Now he left me he has someone else its been 5 months im still crying everyday i just want to see him again i dont want to live my life without him but i have to . Im in a deep depression and seeing a therapist too. I just want to be happy again
    

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I was engaged for 7 years, things just kept getting messed up . He was the first man I ever loved and he finally gave up on me because I would not move in with him, I guess I was scared of being hurt or my fear of leaving my own house. Now he left me he has someone else its been 5 months im still crying everyday i just want to see him again i dont want to live my life without him but i have to . Im in a deep depression and seeing a therapist too. I just want to be happy again.....

If he left you for that then he obviously doesn't deserve you. Demand more for yourself. you are a human being you have flaws and if he can't love the insecure you who just isnt sure of yourself then you don't need him in your life.He didn't give up on you, don't think of it that way, he wasn't good enough for you. He couldn't handle one flaw. love conquers all and obviously he didn't love you the way you desrve to be loved.  And i understand that it hurts, 7 years is a long time but honestly i want you to try and lift your head up.  whenever you wakeup just the first thing you do is say I am strong, i am smart, I am beautiful It may seem silly at the start but honestly these three sentences will change your life. Eventually you'll wakeup one day say those words, believe them with all your heart because they are true and you'll go out and meet the perfect guy for you!! I dont know if you believe in a God or fate but i honestly believe that everything is planned, this may not have worked out the way you hoped but in a years time you could be laughing seeing how things turned out for the best. Everything in life is either a lesson or a blessing <--- quote i live by, it has helped me through some tough times. take this new tie to re discover yourself, fall in love with you and before you know it everything will be perfect.
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remember you crave what you can't have. if you broke it off you wouldn't be as nearly distraught. the pain is caused by someone pulling away and you want to control that. it's basic human nature.

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