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That naive 28 yo would be me. My friend and I have been fooling around for a few months or so. Up to now, it's just been kissing or the odd 3rd base action. Tonight, it was the same kind of stuff... until everything got quickly hot and heavy. I'd told him i had my period, which i think is a gross time of the month, no matter how natural and 'clean' it is. He didnt seem to mind. I wanted to have sex with him... Just not on my period.

Now, I ain't had sex in 8 years. I'm overweight and feel generally unattractive and most men seem to agree with me so, I'm pretty inexperienced and feel awkward even trying to flirt with people since no-one has ever flirted with me... Unless it was a dare. Ugly duckling that never turned into a swan complex.

So, we had sex. Unprotected. Unplanned. Very spur of the moment. On my period. I feel disgusted with myself and generally irked by the whole situation. *********** was only for a minute or two. He pulled out... Then my brain switched back on. I don't want a baby to come from pretty casual sex. Certainly not with this guy. And certainly not now but.... Who in the throes of passion thinks of pregnancy. Honestly.

I dont want a baby and i don't want to be pregnant. It's the third day of my period but, due to the medication i'm on, i barely have a period every six months. When should i take a test?

Okay im panicking.

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Morning after pill from chemists would have been your first port of call but it's too late for that now.
Go to a sexual health clinic and explain your situation.
They can test for pregnancy, sti's and std's to put your mind at rest.
Now as for your obvious low self esteem well girl I just wouldn't put yourself down like that.
Please don't put yourself down like that.
I can see from your writing that you are intelligent, funny and caring.
If we all looked the same and liked the same things in life it would be rubbish,
different floats for different boats as they say, and your float obviously attracts boats :)
I wish you all the best, im sure it's going to be fine x

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