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Me and my patner have been together for 23 years  wev had our fair share of ups and downs in the past having to deal with my patners abuse from her past of being raped and molested from a young age has had its moments of her not wanting to be around no longer and feiling like a piece of **** and blaming herself for what hapnd in the past has been a journy in itself coping with her depresion anxiety and trying my hardest to not only keep her alive and well but to give her a life she deserver hapiness and safty back then i was able to maintain her outburst and rage to not alow it to get out of control until 10 years ago we wur subject to making the scariest decision of our life we wur told that she was pregnant with our daughter with a life threatning illness being hypoplastic left heart syndrom the news had us in tears that the percentage rate for her survival was low and that we should seriously think about aborting the pregnancy that day felt like the end of our world my patner was devasted once again blaming herself for this and that she was not fit to continue with life all her past cuming back to haunt her all i could do is tel her that i loved her and needed her around and that i would support any decision she made then a few dayr later she had made her decision to atleast give our baby a chance and against all the odds after all of her 27 operations from 8 days old in the way of open heart by way of bypass and all the mountains we had to climbe without the help of agency and the support of freinds and family 10 years later wea still blessed to have our miracle baby hea with us today things with me and my family was going good we had things in place for our kids and thea future til 1 day out of no wea i was geting abused by my patner to the extent of tryn to get away from having things thrown at me my car geting smashed up i rung the police for help to get away by the time they turnd up she was in the back of the car kicking me in the head i spun around and tried to hold her legs wen the oficer came from behind me and arested me i tried to prove my inocence but because of my size and stature and the prospect of loosing my job and not being able to provide a safe warm inviroment for our baby with life threatning illness i had no choice but to plead guilty to the charge to get it ova and done with anyway a few yearz go by and we at the point of finaly geting over the ordeal by blaming 1 another my poor patner walks into an ordeal on xmas day 4 years ago to see her sister in a unexplainable state that haunts my patner to this day from that day on i have felt blame for what hapnd to her loved one on that fateful for not allowing my patner to go there earlia in the day due to thea domestics me woried about my patners safty and well being i dhdnt want her geting hurt in the ordeal anyway things took a turn for the worst it felt like some 1 inocent was going to get seriously hurt so i decided to pack my family up and move to another city to get my family away from all the violence and frustration in loozing thea love 1 in the 1st year of our move my family was looking happy safe and content things wur looking upwards for us i had a good paying secure job we had a nice secure safe and warm enviroment for our children my family entered a sports club it was great until some 1 gave my patner the guilt trip teln her she ran away left them to pick up the peices and then the blame game came along abusing me blaming me for taking her away from her corupted family taking her away to wea she aint got no 1 no mater wot i said or did to try make her happy it felt like i was loosing so i would just get up and leave saving all the drama and my kids having to put up with her screaming the street down and abusing me and my property to the point wea she would chase me down the road riping my cloths off me pushing me around and everytime the police would turn up she would say its not us arguing must b next door oa down the road oa dnt no wot ur talking about me being scared of being arrested and falsly acused would just stand thea in silence until 1 nite she got out of control wen i was tryn to leave causing us both wounds and bruises and being out of control made a statment against me that was not true so now having to prove my inocence and not being aloud back to my premises loosing my job couldnt afford the rent payments not being aloud to see my patner or my oldest daughter and not being able to provide a safe warm inviroment for our kids not to mention our daughter with a majour heart condition and basicly being kicked out of the city i thort was our home and with her now in a state of depresion i had no choice but to take my kids off her and leaving her to sort out her isues this has had a majour impact on our lives to the point of our daughter health and well being deteriorating due to her fretting for her mum az wel az my poor patner having to sleep here thea and everywea coz she doesnt understand the implafications of my bail conditions my question is i dnt need money az i have secured another job and now trying to get another warm and safe inviroment for my family is thea anyway to sort this mater out with the courts asap as my family is falling apart and im afraid of a life lost due to stress and or a mental breakdown
Country: Newzealand

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1. Anima Christi

Soul of Christ, sanctify me; Body of Christ, save me; Blood of Christ, inebriate me; Water from the side of Christ, wash me; Passion of Christ, strengthen me; O good Jesus, hear me; within Thy wounds, hide me; let me never be separated from Thee; from the evil one, deliver me; at the hour of my death, call me and bid me come to Thee, that with Thy saints, I may praise Thee forever and ever. Amen.

2. Prayer Against Malefice from the Greek Ritual

God, our Lord, King of ages, All-powerful and All-mighty, You Who made everything and Who transform everything simply by Your will. You Who in Babylon changed into dew the flames of the ‘seven-times hotter’ furnace and protected and saved the three holy children. You are the doctor and the physician of our soul. You are the salvation of those who turn to You.

We beseech You to make powerless, banish, and drive out every diabolic power, presence, and machination; every evil influence, malefice, or evil eye and all evil actions aimed against Your servant [name of person/s]. Where there is envy and malice, give us an abundance of goodness, endurance, victory, and charity.

O Lord, You Who love man, we beg You to reach out Your powerful hands and Your most high and mighty arms and send the angel of peace over us, to protect us, body and soul. May he keep at bay and vanquish every evil power, every poison or malice invoked against us by corrupt and envious people.

Then, under the protection of Your authority may we sing, in gratitude, ‘The Lord is my salvation; whom should I fear? I will not fear evil because You are with me, my God, my strength, my powerful Lord, Lord of peace, Father of all ages.”

Yes, Lord our God, be merciful to us, Your image, and save your servant [name of person/s] from every threat or harm from the evil one, and protect him/her by raising him/her above all evil. We ask You this through the intercession of our Most Blessed, glorious Lady, Mary ever Virgin, Mother of God, of the most splendid archangels and all Your saints. Amen!

3. Prayer for Deliverance

My Lord, you are all powerful, you are God, you are Father. We beg you through the intercession and help of the archangels Michael, Raphael and Gabriel, for the deliverance of our brothers and sisters who are enslaved by the evil one. All saints of Heaven, come to our aid.

From anxiety, sadness and obsessions, we beg You. Free us, O Lord. From hatred, fornication, envy, we beg You, Free us, O Lord. From thoughts of jealousy, rage, and death, we beg You, Free us, O Lord. From every thought of suicide and abortion, we beg You, Free us, O Lord. From every form of sinful sexuality, we beg You, Free us, O Lord.

From every division in our family, and every harmful friendship, we beg You, Free us, O Lord. From every sort of spell, malefic, witchcraft, and every form of the occult, we beg You, Free us, O Lord.

Lord, You Who said, “I leave you peace, My peace I give you,” grant that, through the intercession of the Virgin Mary, we may be liberated from every evil spell and enjoy your peace always. In the name of Christ, our Lord. Amen.

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