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My family has its own problems esp in financial as their daughter I see them that they arre not that Happy anymore. They are keep on repeating those problems and everyday it stocks in my head plus the thing that I get bullied in school. Do you think I should end my life? Because iI'm too tired. I'm too weak. Nobody understands and listens me. Everytime I talk to God I think he's not listening to me because I keep on talking to him but still„ nothing has change.
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It is a bit hard to be in a family that is in financial trouble, especially if you have bullyin to deal with on top of that.  But life is hard.  Have you heard of Job?  He said, "Man is born into trouble as the sparks fly upward."

my question to you is: do you know you are getting through to God?  How do you know?

I have reasons for these questions.  Acts 10, Cornelius is a Roman centurion that tries to be good and prays often and a lot to God.  God knew he was searching and trying to get through, so he sent Apostle Peter to Paul.  Apostle Peter is called that because he was with Jesus Christ while he was on Earth, and Jesus had a message that I am wanting to tell you today.  I warn you, Peter uses lots of words.  I will borrow some from Apostle Paul as well.

Romans 3:23  For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God.

Romans 6:23  For the wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.

John 10:30  I and my Father are one.

Acts 2:22-38  Ye men of Israel, hear these words; Jesus of Nazareth, a man approved of God among you by miracles and wonders and signs, which God did by him in the midst of you, as ye yourselves also know:  (23)  Him, being delivered by the determinate counsel and foreknowledge of God, ye have taken, and by wicked hands have crucified and slain:  (24)  Whom God hath raised up, having loosed the pains of death: because it was not possible that he should be holden of it.  (25)  For David speaketh concerning him, I foresaw the Lord always before my face, for he is on my right hand, that I should not be moved:  (26)  Therefore did my heart rejoice, and my tongue was glad; moreover also my flesh shall rest in hope:  (27)  Because thou wilt not leave my soul in hell, neither wilt thou suffer thine Holy One to see corruption.  (28)  Thou hast made known to me the ways of life; thou shalt make me full of joy with thy countenance.  (29)  Men and brethren, let me freely speak unto you of the patriarch David, that he is both dead and buried, and his sepulchre is with us unto this day.  (30)  Therefore being a prophet, and knowing that God had sworn with an oath to him, that of the fruit of his *****, according to the flesh, he would raise up Christ to sit on his throne;  (31)  He seeing this before spake of the resurrection of Christ, that his soul was not left in hell, neither his flesh did see corruption.  (32)  This Jesus hath God raised up, whereof we all are witnesses.  (33)  Therefore being by the right hand of God exalted, and having received of the Father the promise of the Holy Ghost, he hath shed forth this, which ye now see and hear.  (34)  For David is not ascended into the heavens: but he saith himself, The LORD said unto my Lord, Sit thou on my right hand,  (35)  Until I make thy foes thy footstool.  (36)  Therefore let all the house of Israel know assuredly, that God hath made that same Jesus, whom ye have crucified, both Lord and Christ.  (37)  Now when they heard this, they were pricked in their heart, and said unto Peter and to the rest of the apostles, Men and brethren, what shall we do?  (38)  Then Peter said unto them, Repent,... every one of you in the name of Jesus Christ for the remission of sins, and ye shall receive the gift of the Holy Ghost.

Romans 10:9  That if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved.

I know there is a lot in there, so I will explain a few words.  Repent: change of heart that results in a change of direction.  Pricked in their heart:  pained conscience, guilt   Remission:  Complete removal and payment of debt

I know there is a bit, so I will sum it up in one verse.  John 3:16, For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.

Hebrews 13: Let your conversation be without covetousness; and be content with such things as ye have: for he hath said, I will never leave thee, nor forsake thee.
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Have you heard of a job? Is this your answer to a child reaching out?

Is anyone screening these responses????  

Nut, I'm not sure reciting unrelated bible verses is what is necessary. I know it makes you feel superior, so in a way, you're a bully too.
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Profile Photo by HOPE ANGEL24K (66.1k points)   7 11 38
Dear Dee,

Do you exercise?
After an intense workout,  we may feel tired and weak, but internally our muscles rebuild and grow to make us stronger and prepared for the next bigger challenge.

I belive this is the state you are in. I would like to give you a big high-five and hug for doing so great under such big challenge. What you need now is to take a good rest, relax, and tell yourself everything is going to be better! I know this is not the first time you hear this and you may even hate someone say this to you. Please belive me that I am telling you the truth. I say this not because this happen to everyone, but I have complete confidence in you and the God you belive in.

I believe you will be able to make thing better not only for yourself but also for this world.

I belive that you will have the wisdom to know that many bullies are emotionally insecure or socially incompetent. They resort to harassment and intimidation because they can’t think of any better way of getting attention. While others are just lack of
Empathy and moral engagement. They also need help.

I believe  that you will have the strength and self-confidence to  take clear stand against bullying and will not be a bystander even it doesn't happen to you.

I believe that you will have the patience, unconditional love, and understanding to support your patents during this difficult time in their life.

Dee, please know you are never alone.  Many people do care about you and love you. There is a great future waiting for you.

Next time you pray, instead of asking for a change you want, please ask for wisdom, strength, and guidance!

You can do it!
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Hi,

I've struggled with depression, including suicidal thoughts, and there's been a lot of improvement for me. I've been taking anti-depressant medications. Also, I've been doing the 12 steps of Emotions Anonymous.

1: We admitted we were powerless over our emotions--that our lives had become unmanageable.

2: We came to believe that a power greater than ourselves could restore us to sanity.

3: We made a decision to turn our lives and our wills over to the care of God as we understood Him.

4: We made a searching and fearless moral inventory of ourselves.

5: We admitted to God, to ourselves and to another human being the exact nature of our wrongs.

6: We were entirely ready to have God remove all these defects of character.

7: We humbly asked Him to remove our shortcomings.

8: We made a list of all persons we had harmed and became willing to make amends to all of them.

9: We made direct amends to such people whenever possible, except when to do so would injure them or others.

10: We continued to take personal inventory and when we were wrong, promptly admitted it.

11: We sought through prayer and meditation to improve our conscious contact with God as we understood Him, praying only for knowledge of His will for us and the power to carry that out.

12: Having had a spiritual awakening as the result of these steps, we tried to carry this message and to practice these principles in all our affairs.

Emotions Anonymous, a fellowship of people recovering from emotional problems like anxiety, depression and anger.
http://www.emotionsanonymous.org

May peace be with you,
Anonymous
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Please don't!! I went through the same things when I was your age. My home life was horrible, growing up & my school life wasnt any better! I was picked on daily bcuz of how I looked.. I was told I was ugly everyday, laughed at, called mean names, had no friends, & no one ever showed up to any of my bday parties.. It hurt my feelings so bad I wanted to die.. but let me tell you something sweetie.. we all go through something.. just like the ones being mean to you.. they are lashing out at you bcuz they have problems at home or in their school or personal lives.. for some stupid reason it makes them feel better when they hurt others but what theyare saying to you is really how they feel about tthemselves!! Believe me I have been there!! Dont you let those ppl get you down!! You get your education babygirl & dont worry about what others say!! After high school comes the real world & those kids will have a huge reality check!! Lol.. Plus your parent love you soo much!! It would break their hearts if they lost you!! Never lose faith in god!! Trust me he hears your prayers & he is working on something great for you!! You're a beautiful young lady with a very bright future ahead of you.. Dont give up!!
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Dear Dee,

I am sorry to hear that you are feeling so over-whelmed with the trouble your family is having in finances and that you are being bullied in school. Sometimes these things can fill us fit to bursting that it takes all our energy just to wake up and to keep it together. But that is what is so key; you are still finding that energy and you are still keeping on keeping on.

It might be difficult to consider how powerful your mind and body are when you are struggling but don't sell that strength short. It is powerful.

Some things are sent to test our resolve and our faith and, often, Gifts are given to us that we take for granted. It is possible that your Gift is the form of strength. The strength to push through, the strength to continue to go to school, the strength to open up about your struggles, the strength to keep your head high and keep your heart full of love and concern for your family.

It sounds like you are one heck of a person with love in your heart enough to spare. Take some time to look into yourself and connect with how important your strength is to you and channel it into giving yourself something. Exercise, read, sing, draw, scream at the top of your lungs; use your body and your mind for yourself and really connect with that strength you give to other people.

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I can relate to how you feel.  I was bullied all throughout grade school too..mainly for looks ( i was overweight then and I moved to a new school from the province, so I spoke with a different accent).  I grew up in a dysfunctional family...my parents were very old (my dad was 56 when I was born), was in bad financial shape (as they were already retired when I was still very young), and my mom was a schizophrenic.  I was seriously considering suicide around the age of 13...esp whenever my mom had manic and embarrassing episodes (like running amok in our street).  I didn't have a lot of friends, and I purposely avoided having close friends.  I buried myself in reading books (mainly to escape reality)..and then studies.  When I graduated from highschool (2nd in our graduating class), my dad told me he couldn't afford to send me to school anymore and I seriously considered working as a waitress/salesgirl.  I went and applied for a university scholarship as a last resort before I went looking for a job, and was lucky enough to land a full scholarship at our top university there in Manila.  Then, I was in a bad relationship with a physically and mentally abusive man who nearly killed me.  I was in a very deep, dark, period of misery before I found myself crawling to a church's Blessed Sacrament one day and telling God I couldn't go on anymore and that I didn't see any more purpose in living.  Why am I telling you all these?  I just want to let you know that things turned out well for me...and if God answered my prayers and changed my life situation 360 degrees, He can do the same for you, if you ask him for His help.  Try not to dwell in the unpleasantness of your family situation.  Go out and have fun with yr friends, or get involved in school and community volunteer/church social activities.  Believe me, when I look back at those dark moments in my life, I can see that those were the times God was making me grow stronger as a person.  It may sound cliche but there is indeed light at the end of the tunnel...and yes, there will come a time where he will fill your cup (to overflowing) with abundant blessings to make up for all the lean times you had experienced.
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I was bullied in school to and felt like evry one was agents me but dieing is no the answer ist jsut trying to askep but you can askep it you need to find piase with in you a i didnt get help only cep all my filling's in side my and now my soul is dark and cool pleace dont wori heng in the it will be beder soon
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I was bullied too. All bullies can smell vulnerability. It is true, they are week themselves so they find someone easy to pick on.

Yes, when you all grow up, life is the great leveling field. I am much more attractive now than the people who once made fun of my looks. There's nothing much one can do about their looks, so that's an easy hit for them.

If your parents or an adult can't or won't go with you to confront the school officials, go to the police department. Tell them you need a buddy. I bet a cop would go hang with you at school and give the bullies the stink eye.

You look fine, no matter what you look like, you will look back and realize you looked just fine.

Tell an adult, and insist that adult, like the school administration, help you.

I wish schools could identify bullies and make them stand up in front of class every morning and recite positive affirmations as punishment for being little turds.

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