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asked Jun 16, 2017 by anonymous  
im 14 and i really do not want to anymore. And i find it frustrating that there is no reason not to except the fact that i have empathy for those around me. i have no friends, i hate my family (sad but true), im not smart i have social anxiety,i'm ugly and life is terrible. I've noticed alot of people ive talked to online say stuff like  ''you've got a whole life ahead of you'' and ''all teenagers get depressed and all its just hormones'' and even if it is hormones or the stuff im going through rn its still dangerous and quite frankly im scared...

and i just wanted to write this to get what im feeling into words but there is still alot of **** in my head..
    

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Profile Photo answered Jun 17, 2017 by Nash ANGEL3000+ (3,240 points)   2 5
I think that you probably already feel a little better having put what you were feeling into words. People just need to talk to other people. Everybody has hard times in life. Some people go through this as adults, but I think it is harder for those like you who have a very difficult life at such a young age. I am here to tell you that what you are going through is only temporary, but I think that you may need some help going forward. It sounds like you need to talk someone like a psychiatrist because there may be a reason beyond your control that you are so socially anxious, you have no friends, you hate your parents, and you are considering suicide. And I really doubt that you are ugly. I really feel that the best thing is to let your parents know that you have been wanting to commit suicide and that you want to talk to a psychiatrist.
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answered Jun 18, 2017 by anonymous  
Hi,

For years I had mostly anxiety, but for the past several months I've had mostly peace. I've struggled with depression, including suicidal thoughts, and there's been a lot of improvement for me. I've been taking anti-depressant medications and a mood stabilizer medication. Also I've been doing the 12 Steps of Emotions Anonymous. Part of my continued healing is that I share with others the solution.


1: We admitted we were powerless over our emotions--that our lives had become unmanageable.

2: We came to believe that a power greater than ourselves could restore us to sanity.

3: We made a decision to turn our will and our lives over to the care of God as we understood Him.

4: We made a searching and fearless moral inventory of ourselves.

5: We admitted to God, to ourselves and to another human being the exact nature of our wrongs.

6: We were entirely ready to have God remove all these defects of character.

7: We humbly asked Him to remove our shortcomings.

8: We made a list of all persons we had harmed and became willing to make amends to them all.

9: We made direct amends to such people wherever possible, except when to do so would injure them or others.

10: We continued to take personal inventory and when we were wrong, promptly admitted it.

11: We sought through prayer and meditation to improve our conscious contact with God as we understood Him, praying only for knowledge of His will for us and the power to carry that out.

12: Having had a spiritual awakening as the result of these steps, we tried to carry this message and to practice these principles in all our affairs.


Emotions Anonymous, a fellowship of people recovering from emotional problems like anxiety, depression and anger.

http://www.emotionsanonymous.org

My story can be found here:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8EysSD4rGew

Thanks for reading this.

May peace be with you,
Anonymous
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answered Jun 18, 2017 by Justis  
Never say that you are not smart, or that you are ugly or anything to lower your self esteem. Everybody is beautiful in there own ways, regardless of what anyone says. So you may not be good at talking to be able and if that is the case don't worry about that. You will find your one talent neccesary to make you happy in life. Also if you need a friend you can talks to me.  i will gladly talk to you or anyone in need of a friend whether its just for a moment or forever. Just please live your life the way you feel you should and do not do anything that could harm your future.
 Im here for you as your new friend. Lets talk when you need it
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answered Jun 20, 2017 by anonymous  
Hi,  I hope your doing better today.  Writing out our feelings is a really great way to get it out of your head! Once on paper we can re-read it and it takes a big burden of off shoulders because it's not still floating around in or minds. Look online for EFT  tapping videos because they really do help too to get the angry and hurt energy out of your body. The videos are on YouTube and are free. You can also contact:

Emotions Anonymous:
emotionsanonymous.com
651-647-9712

They have local meeting, can do Skype sessions or over the phone.  I hope this helps xo

You can contract me back if you would like.

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