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Will someone just listen I don't know what I need or where to begin ?

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asked Feb 12 by Samuel  
March 2e 2016 I went into our local hospital for hernia repair sergery and that was the last day of not being in pain for me since. I didn't know that this was a major sergury the doctors told me that it was just a little slice on each side and a patch over a torn muscle. Should of done some reserch. This is a small town of around 4500 people mostly unemployed or retired basicly a poor community to begin with we dont have even a wallmart just dollar genneral. I left work to have sergury and haven't been able to work since. No one understands the kind of pain this has caused me and I get so flustered that I can't talk about it with anyone. I feel so alone  my wife does not understand and were raising our grandson 4 yrs almost5 but he is bad off his mother did not even go to a doctor once so he is a handfull all on his own that leaves me not working to supporting my family but just alone. I had exploration sergury dec 20 w017 but now im in pain like never before and dont know what to do. I cant find a lawyer to even listen to me because its so hard forvery poor me to explain most hang up when I tell them where I live cause its to far to drive. So I dont know what is first I cant support my family were well we were a tight family now one boy to the army in may the other not understanding the changes in his brother and not knowing whathappened one day his dad is planning to buy a house working 6 sometimes7 days to were living in his grandmothers studio. where to ask I need 75.000 for a house I need an attourney to sue these people that did this to me. I need a babysitter that can handle my grandson cps wont even he is off the charts.I need to take my wife somewhere and show her how much I love Her before she runs away and I wont blame her.I need pants 3w-34 down to only overalls.we eat with food stamps now something that iv'e never considered before.I have nothing left barely hope of any kind. whether this gets read or not I just need help.
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answered Feb 20 by leanne  
Hi I read through your worries and i do understand, I also have shoulder pain from a car accident and it is hard to explain the pain to others they could not know how we feel ...
I am in Australia but i found a place where you might be able to seek family help..www.*********************.org
and you don't need to take your wife out to prove you care just tell her every day that you are trying to sort this pain /money problem out and that you will always look after your family and that you love her very much just each day say i love you ....
also, i have found a site for free legal advice https://www.usa.gov/legal-aid
Your pain will get better try and find free help over the internet or search for ways you can ease the pain at home ok well i hoped this all helped you also your family does understand you are in pain they are probally getting frustrated as they dont know what to do and they cant ease your pain

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