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I cant struggle like this anymore, im tired of struggling no matter how hard i try

+2 votes
i've been up and down with depression for sometime and am currently not on medication.  the thought of dying doesnt scare me but the i do it does?? i have 3 kids and i blame myself for everything they do wrong... i am so tired of struggling and now face christmas with nothing for my kids.  financially after today i have no food or money till the dss sort my claim out and in the meantime they cannot help as i owe them so much money though an overpayment (a mistake they made) my house is upside down and so am i, i cant understand why i always end up feeling trapped in my own mind and worry constant for my kids...please help me feel better so i can deal with and face everyday life and its issues without falling apart every turn at the seams
Country: uk
asked Dec 12, 2012 by anonymous  
    

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+1 vote
You just have to think 'this too will pass.' it won't last forever. Everybody goes through rough patches in their life but think you have 3 children which I'm sure you adore. Try and focus on the positive things in life.
Avatar Image answered Dec 15, 2012 by James (210 points)   2
+1 vote
Hi

You need to step back and just take a deep breath... It sounds like you are having a panic attack, and just feel completely crushed by the pressure. Is there no one who can help you with your kids? Are you getting any support from their father? It sounds like you need a little break. If you can't, then you just need to let things go. It is ok if your home is a mess. With 3 kids what home wouldn't be, especially if you want them to be happy kids. Don't worry about things that are beyond your control. And don't stress over Christmas ... I am sure they would rather spend time with you than get a ton of presents.

Is there a reason you have stopped treatment? Please do not ignore your depression. You need to take care of yourself so you can be well, and in turn take care of your kids. You have 3 great reasons to fight and live. Your kids need you. You can't blame yourself for everything your kids do... they have free will, and sometimes will not make the right choices. But, you do have the power to react. If you feel they have done something wrong, then correct them. Show them the right way, and the best way to do this is to set the example. Be a good role model for them, and show them that chose life for them. Show them that life is full of struggles but they like you can handle it.

Please don't lose hope, and don't stress. If you need to talk, I am here for you. Good luck
Avatar Image answered Dec 20, 2012 by goodwill ANGEL18K+ (19,010 points)   4 8 46

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