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I feel so wrong and bad... I couldn't take it I find out she is pregnant.. I feel horrible. I know leaving her alone would be the worst I could do but I'm not ready to be a father... I'm only 16.. I have barely lived my life as it is.. I cant live like this. I feel really bad because I was the good kid.. everyone knows I don't drink, smoke, or party. I love helping people for nothing in return. I was born and raised an assemblies of God christian so if she is.. I'm basically screwed :/ my family wouldn't take it well and neither would hers. I feel like a total failure and I don't want to live knowing what I did.. I feel so guilty

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Profile Photo by Burchall ANGEL500 (510 points)   2
First things first, there's a BIG difference between "might be pregnant" and is pregnant so she needs to do a couple of tests first, there's no point in worrying untill you know for CERTAIN so hold on until you know.

If it turns out that she's not pregnant then all your worrying is for nothing and your life is exactly the same as it was a month ago. Well not exactly the same as hopefully you'll be a little smarter and will use protection in the future! If she is pregnant you'll need to talk to you're parents, sooner rather than later. It may sound hard for you to believe but they were young once, this isn't like aliens landing in the yard, so it's not completely outside their realm of understanding and the one thing you can be sure of is that there's know one else in this world that loves and cares more for you guys and yeah they will be disappointed (put yourself in thief shoes?) but they will support and look after both of you, that's part of being Christian and they'd be letting themselves down to do anything other.
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Profile Photo by Jones ANGEL14K+ (15.6k points)   3 7 24
This is definitely a 2 stage process, with the first stage being really easy to do.

Firstly, go to a pharmacy with your girlfriend and buy an over the counter testing kit. These aren't very expensive and are really quite accurate in their answers.

If it's positive, take a deep breath -  then things will probably go something like this;

you both freak out

you wonder what youre going to do

you won't feel like you can cope with a child

after a short while you should really talk things through with your parents. It will be a shock to them just as it is to you and after an initial period of craziness things will start to sink in a bit.

Remember, if this does happen, then fear not. You and your girlfriend have many many options available to you which you may be able to discuss with a health worker. There will be local support groups to help you through and to make the right choices. You certainly wouldn't be the first young couple to go through this and you wouldn't be the last. Many people would be able to help you and make sense of the situation.

You may be worrying over nothing here, so the best thing is to know what's what as soon as you can.
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Profile Photo by Santana ANGEL5000+ (5.4k points)   1 3 15
HI Friend,

Firstly relax. There are worst things to happen in life than a baby. Children are a blessing. Your family would be shocked but once that passes, hey this is a new life and a part of their family, they will support you.

Do the right thing, you know what it is and trust that eveything happens for a reason. Life is special x
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Profile Photo by HOPE ANGEL24K (65.9k points)   7 11 38
Be a responsible person: do things right and do the right things!

Please talk with both of your parents. No matter what they say or do, they will be helping both of you at the end. You need their support and help!!

May Angels be with you and your girlfriend.
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Profile Photo by Patrico (290 points)   1
Well if you are a caring person and don't drink or smoke then you will be a better father than many other young teens today. If you turn out to be a father then most of the neccesary skill comes with instinct. Don't worry about what kind of father you would be. As long as you care for your child and try your best you can't go wrong :)      Talk to your parents and they would surely help make sure the baby is taken care of, even if they are mad. Make sure she is pregnant first but it won't be the end of the world if she is. With the advice of your parents and a positive attitude you can take care of the child just fine.
How did it go for you ? My moms here crying because I'm in the same situation I don't know what to do I feel lost yes I work but I'm 15 literally turning 16 in a matter of 2 weeks and she's turning 16 in 2 months so were the same age but what can happen what's the law and can I get in trouble
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wow me and me grilfriend our going thur the same thing but i have to step up and be a man i made this baby it takes to pepole to make a baby and where anlone 17 and shes 16 GOOD LUCK D

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