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Very hard to take in but the reality is a nightmare, I worked in the UK for 24 years designing and selling security systems, I was offered a job in South Africa which at the time seemed a good idea, my mum and sister were living there so I packed up everything and moved there with my wife.

We moved in with my sister for 2 years whilst my new house was built, I started my own security company again and started to make money, life was good, the only issue was crime; living in Glen Austin which is about 2 Kilometres from Tembisa (township) had serious armed robbery problems I was shot at to many times to remember at night out in my garden with people trying to break in.

We lived there for 9 years, the end came when my wife opened the gate to let in a delivery (she said later she did not know why she opened the gate) armed guys jumped out and attacked her, gun to the head, knife at the throat continuous life threats, they tied her arms behind her back with cable ties threw her on the bedroom floor and dropped the wardrobe on top of her, the men started loading everything on to their van, she managed to get free and waited until they were all outside and managed to lock the security gate and press the alarm. They left very quickly, security arrived then the police but a total waste of time.
 This obviously affected my wife badly, it caused serious problems between us and she said she was going back to England and then left, divorce followed.

2 years later I met a lady from Zambia her name is Malambo and in 2009 we got married, in 2010 my wife gave birth to our son Dale, one year later we had a daughter we named her Chloe.
Work carried on for a few years but got very hard to Black Economic Empowerment and work being given to black people not white (my wife is black but not South African big difference, Xenophobia), very difficult to get contracts unless your company had a large South African black shareholding and also you had to be very well connected.

In 2015 I was head hunted to design security systems in Kenya, I moved there with my family, the first year was great, my wife gave birth to another boy called Marc, then problems started, work dried up, I had designed many security systems for the Kenyan government, border protection, cellular base stations, financial institutes, Hotels etc, it is now 2019 and we are still waiting for any of them to come to fruition, lots of promises, lots of meetings and still waiting.

In March 2019 my work permit ran out and we had to leave Kenya, my wife suggested I stay with a member of her family in Switzerland and she would go to Zambia with the kids because she was not allowed to go into Europe on a Zambian passport. This is what happened.
I have been looking for work for nearly three months without any luck; I have knocked on hundreds of doors, hundreds of emails and phone calls.

My children can come to Switzerland no problem they have British passports, the problem is my wife with a Zambian passport, I either have to have a job then I will get a work permit or very simply have around 15 thousand Euros’ in a bank account and she can come tomorrow.
At this time I am at breaking point so is my family, little or no money same for me, can’t the pay rent here or Zambia, school fees, food very sad for my kids.

My family desperately wants to come here to be with me or in any country we can be together and time is running out quickly, I need to somehow get hold of enough money to pay for their flights here (2000 Euros’) and enough money  in the bank to satisfy the government regulations around 15 thousand Euro’s.
I need to find a very very caring soul who has a great understanding of the terrible situation of being apart from your family and also who has spare money that they would be able to assist us with, I will pay them back when I get a job (hopefully) but my family is in a terrible situation and at this time no way out. So maybe there is a caring person or persons who can get us out of this mess, or find me a job where I can support them. I would be totally indebted to you, it is a terrible thing when you get to 60 and no one wants to give you a job, I have more life and energy in me than 40 year old but it comes down to a piece of paper showing my age then oops sorry.
Country: Switzerland

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1. Anima Christi

Soul of Christ, sanctify me; Body of Christ, save me; Blood of Christ, inebriate me; Water from the side of Christ, wash me; Passion of Christ, strengthen me; O good Jesus, hear me; within Thy wounds, hide me; let me never be separated from Thee; from the evil one, deliver me; at the hour of my death, call me and bid me come to Thee, that with Thy saints, I may praise Thee forever and ever. Amen.

2. Prayer Against Malefice from the Greek Ritual

God, our Lord, King of ages, All-powerful and All-mighty, You Who made everything and Who transform everything simply by Your will. You Who in Babylon changed into dew the flames of the ‘seven-times hotter’ furnace and protected and saved the three holy children. You are the doctor and the physician of our soul. You are the salvation of those who turn to You.

We beseech You to make powerless, banish, and drive out every diabolic power, presence, and machination; every evil influence, malefice, or evil eye and all evil actions aimed against Your servant [name of person/s]. Where there is envy and malice, give us an abundance of goodness, endurance, victory, and charity.

O Lord, You Who love man, we beg You to reach out Your powerful hands and Your most high and mighty arms and send the angel of peace over us, to protect us, body and soul. May he keep at bay and vanquish every evil power, every poison or malice invoked against us by corrupt and envious people.

Then, under the protection of Your authority may we sing, in gratitude, ‘The Lord is my salvation; whom should I fear? I will not fear evil because You are with me, my God, my strength, my powerful Lord, Lord of peace, Father of all ages.”

Yes, Lord our God, be merciful to us, Your image, and save your servant [name of person/s] from every threat or harm from the evil one, and protect him/her by raising him/her above all evil. We ask You this through the intercession of our Most Blessed, glorious Lady, Mary ever Virgin, Mother of God, of the most splendid archangels and all Your saints. Amen!

3. Prayer for Deliverance

My Lord, you are all powerful, you are God, you are Father. We beg you through the intercession and help of the archangels Michael, Raphael and Gabriel, for the deliverance of our brothers and sisters who are enslaved by the evil one. All saints of Heaven, come to our aid.

From anxiety, sadness and obsessions, we beg You. Free us, O Lord. From hatred, fornication, envy, we beg You, Free us, O Lord. From thoughts of jealousy, rage, and death, we beg You, Free us, O Lord. From every thought of suicide and abortion, we beg You, Free us, O Lord. From every form of sinful sexuality, we beg You, Free us, O Lord.

From every division in our family, and every harmful friendship, we beg You, Free us, O Lord. From every sort of spell, malefic, witchcraft, and every form of the occult, we beg You, Free us, O Lord.

Lord, You Who said, “I leave you peace, My peace I give you,” grant that, through the intercession of the Virgin Mary, we may be liberated from every evil spell and enjoy your peace always. In the name of Christ, our Lord. Amen.

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