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So I have a boyfriend and the both of us have been together for about a year, he was the first person to actually steal my heart. I've been in love before, but nothing like this. Well within the time of us being together we moved in with one another very early into our relationship and ever sense then we have spent literally every day together besides short periods of time when
I would visit my family in different cities or states which has only been about 3 weeks in total between every trip. We spent everyday doing fun stuff with each other and our friends, the beach, off roading, going to partys and just a lot more. Well I recently got pregnant and we were both happy until lately, he now never comes home and is always out partying while I stay at home because my pregnancy has been hurting and making me sick to much to want to leave. And whenever he is out he doesn't talk to me, I never know what hes doing or when hes going to come home ... when I told him I felt he doesn't want to be around me anymore, I feel like he doesn't care and he says he doesn't like sitting in the house and wants to go do things with his friends which usually is getting drunk, he occasionally brings me candy and chocolate and whenever he is around he acts like he loves me but anytime beside that im completely secluded out of his life. It kills me knowing he knows that I feel horrible and doesn't care It feels like. He tells me all these things but doesn't show me he cares or anything but assures me he wants to be with me. I don't know what to do... I need some help from an outside source because im tired of crying every night over this. Thank you
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Profile Photo by faith ANGEL22K+ (22.4k points)   3 7 36
Hi. I am so sorry to hear of how you are feeling. Do you have a friend who you can talk with, if not you need to find someone so you can get these feeling out. It is a tricky subject to discuses on here and I would suggest you talk to a relative or friend you can trust.
It sounds like your boyfriend is immature and not taking responsibility for the situation, he needs to grow up and realize he has now moved on to becoming an expecting father.
I am sure there will be some help in your area, ask your doctor.
As I do not live in the USA I am not familiar to the help lines, but if you cant find any let me know and I will try to find some , but let me know where you live.
Also being pregnant could make you feel like you are on your own having this baby, as you are the one doing all the work. Can I ask if you are happy that you are pregnant ?
Men sometimes take a while to realize that their life has to change when they have a child on the way, so try not to get to upset with him just yet and talk to him about how you need his support more, and he should spend more time being with you..
I do care about you and if you want to talk more with me, I am here for you. Try and be happy with yourself............Angel Faith

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