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I love him more than anything but my depression is pushing him away. I don't know what to do anymore.

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asked Apr 14, 2012 by anonymous  
I want to be with him but I don't want to face the pain of depression anymore. He's the only reason I'm still here and yet I'm pushing him away. I don't know what to do, I just want to be ok again.
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Profile Photo answered Apr 15, 2012 by HOPE ANGEL24K (62,880 points)   6 11 36
First, please do not blame yourself for “pushing him away”. It is not your intention and I am sure he do understand.

I assume that you have been working with your doctor on this problem. If not, I strongly suggest that you talk with him/her about this. I also believe that you should try other coping methods such as exercise, deep breathing, and meditation. These work for many people and they don’t have those side effects …

Also, the depression doesn't start from nowhere. There are usually life experiences that are the cause. If you can find them, it may help you break the cycle and eventually control the past feelings consciously.

Suicide is NOT a solution. Depression is curable! Please never give up!

May god bless you two!
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Profile Photo answered Mar 3, 2013 by Santana ANGEL5000+ (5,290 points)   1 3 15
Hi Friend,

Break ups are never easy even when it is a mutual one, so of course you feel upset. But you must remember that from every experience we go through we learn from and this wisdom we take with us to our future relationships. You are still feeling raw right now, but this feeling wont last forever.

Give yourself some time to relax and gather your thoughs again. Give yourself a makeover both emotionally and physically. Take good care of yourself in the following weeks and do some things that make you happy. With time you will grow in strength and be able to look back on the relationship and clearly see the lessons you have learned.

We often make the mistake in thinking we cant live without people. We can and we do. You have to learn to love yourself again and you wont need anyone.

Take care xx
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Profile Photo answered Mar 25, 2013 by angel ANGEL7000+ (7,590 points)   3 5 15


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