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i'm 21 and have had anorexia since i was 16. i've just come out of hospital again and already i'm relapsing. i just feel too exhausted to keep caring but i can't help caring and it's draining everything from me. i don't know how to fight anymore and i keep wishing i could just die. please help me
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Profile Photo by ANGEL3000+ (3.1k points)  

please if you feel yourself relapsing, get back to a doctor. you're not better off dead.

you care and fight to live, but can't quite seem to know why. you what you're doing is a brutal means of ending your life. i don't know why you hate yourself that much, but your self-loathe isn't truth.

i've done horrifying things to myself and my body because of self-loathing and hating. it can get better with a lot of hard work and a loving person to talk to.

 i fight the self-hate monster every day and am slowly learning to love myself again. and somedays, i get bad and hold those rusty torture instruments in my hand and want to undo all that i've accomplished, but i get the strength and love from others to avoid succumbing to that monster's intoxicating lies.

love fuels my fighting spirit against my demons. maybe love can help you as well. please keep strong and fighting for a better day. i'll be here to talk to you or answer any questions you have. and please get under doctor supervision if you're relapsing, you can't keep hurting yourself. lots of big hugs. and please keep in touch, us fighters need to stay in touch and give each other strength.

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Verses in the Holy Bible against suicide:


1 Corinthians 3:16-17 ESV / 626 helpful votes

Do you not know that you are God's temple and that God's Spirit dwells in you? If anyone destroys God's temple, God will destroy him. For God's temple is holy, and you are that temple.

Ecclesiastes 7:17 ESV / 530 helpful votes

Be not overly wicked, neither be a fool. Why should you die before your time?

Psalm 34:17-20 ESV / 297 helpful votes

When the righteous cry for help, the Lord hears and delivers them out of all their troubles. The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves the crushed in spirit. Many are the afflictions of the righteous, but the Lord delivers him out of them all. He keeps all his bones; not one of them is broken.

1 Corinthians 6:19-20 ESV / 250 helpful votes

Or do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit within you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. So glorify God in your body.

Jeremiah 29:11 ESV / 173 helpful votes

For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans for welfare and not for evil, to give you a future and a hope.

1 Corinthians 6:20 ESV / 116 helpful votes

For you were bought with a price. So glorify God in your body.

2 Corinthians 12:9 ESV / 75 helpful votes

But he said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” Therefore I will boast all the more gladly of my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may rest upon me.


Psalm 13:2-4 ESV / 72 helpful votes

How long must I take counsel in my soul and have sorrow in my heart all the day? How long shall my enemy be exalted over me? Consider and answer me, O Lord my God; light up my eyes, lest I sleep the sleep of death, lest my enemy say, “I have prevailed over him,” lest my foes rejoice because I am shaken.

Hebrews 11:1-40 ESV / 3 helpful votes

Now faith is the assurance of things hoped for, the conviction of things not seen. For by it the people of old received their commendation. By faith we understand that the universe was created by the word of God, so that what is seen was not made out of things that are visible. By faith Abel offered to God a more acceptable sacrifice than Cain, through which he was commended as righteous, God commending him by accepting his gifts. And through his faith, though he died, he still speaks. By faith Enoch was taken up so that he should not see death, and he was not found, because God had taken him. Now before he was taken he was commended as having pleased God.

Philippians 1:18-26 ESV / 3 helpful votes

What then? Only that in every way, whether in pretense or in truth, Christ is proclaimed, and in that I rejoice. Yes, and I will rejoice, for I know that through your prayers and the help of the Spirit of Jesus Christ this will turn out for my deliverance, as it is my eager expectation and hope that I will not be at all ashamed, but that with full courage now as always Christ will be honored in my body, whether by life or by death. For to me to live is Christ, and to die is gain. If I am to live in the flesh, that means fruitful labor for me. Yet which I shall choose I cannot tell.
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Is posting a long list of Bible verses really helpful?  Especially when many of them are, at best, only tangentially related to the problem the person is dealing with?
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Take it minute by minute, second by second. Go to the hospital if you can't control the problem. Sometimes a massive problem can be solved by approaching it in as small an increment as possible. You do care. Keep up the fight. You are loved. Sometimes you might not feel it, but you are. God and this universe and this world loves you. Don't give up hope. You can do this. Never be afraid to ask for help. It is never too late and it is never too much. Don't give up. Don't ever give up. Never stop caring, because God will never stop caring for you.

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