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The Local Authority have to keep a certain number of children in care so that they get their government funding.This is FACT.

I cannot afford a solicitor - they charge £150+ per hour - andwe cannot get legal aid as my partner works and as a result we make too much money - yet people who never even try- they sit around and do sweet f a  and do drugs, drink, etc get legal aid. I am fed up. I hate it - I hate life. I love my daughter yet they keep us apart and she is turning against me. I can feel it and it cuts like a knife.

If I try to do anything legally it will be off my own back and on my own steam. I was in a very bad place when I lost my job and l hated life. I was unfairly dismissed and had to sign a compromise agreement to get severance pay. I am so upset - so sad and I feel so alone- so alone. I was horrible to my daughter a few times - and I am ashamed that I did anything to upset her.... I am ashamed.
But now I am at the end of my rope. When we have our 10 minute phone call every Sunday I sense that she doesn't want me at all and she only talks to me to humour me. She cares more for the fat **** Sally who is her foster carer.

Life is horrid - andthat is why I want it to end. I have done all that I can and the effing LA make life intolerable. Id rather be dead

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Profile Photo by parris ANGEL4000+ (4.6k points)   1 4 17
hi you say you daughter in care. well that the problem your not there for her so what good are you. thats what she will be need to understand her she probley want you to kick off dont bite to it. because this will put you at risk of losing her bit you tong. and be nice she dont get alot off time with you so you need to cherish her and tell her you want her back. she young with say you lost your job and your down dont worrie about that you can get anther job. jouk

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