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Hi...It's been 1 week since I got to school last time, I dont know what to do in my life, I talked about my problem with my only real friend, she gave some solution...but nothing I need...I'm 17yrs old, I failed almost all at school...I dont know why I'm still alive, you know, everybody is gonna die one day...but why should I keep going on? I could just take a shortcut and stop my life...The only things that make me happy is playing World of Warcraft and being with my dog...what can I do?  I dont know if I should just leave this place and go away so nobody could find me or kill myself...please help me...I'm so tired of this life
Country: Quebec (canada)
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Hi, Is school your problem ? 17 is an age that is a diffecult age. I didnt do very good at school but went on to have a good and happy life, so can you. You say playing Warcraft and being with your dog makes you happy. (what dog do you have and whats its name). When I was 17 i also didnt know where I was heading, but things soon changed for the better as it usually does and will for you, I'm sure. Tell me what you would like to do with your life to make you happier, I do want to hear from you please...........Faith
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Yes school is one of my problem... My dog is a ''Yorkshire terrier'' (not sure if its the name in english but it is in french) her name is Mollie (I didnt choose, she was abandonned by her last master)...What do I want to do in my life? I dont really know...something about health maybe...I though I could stop school now and go to ''Aldults' school'' then make a session in ''atendant to the beneficiary'' ....but my dad dont want me to do that and my mom would be proud of me...when I feel bad, my father keep telling me I'm lazy and that I'm never gonna do anything good...I dont know what to do with him...I tried to talk with him but he dont let me place a word...
Profile Photo by faith ANGEL22K+ (22.4k points)   3 7 35
Thanks for getting back to me. It is good to get replys from people on here. I am interested in the person not just the question they leave on here. Say Hi, to Mollie for me they are a lovely little dog.
I have already seen a good person in your reply. Wanting to maybe work in "atendant to the Beneficiary" ( I had to look up what that was) shows me you are a caring person. There is definetly a need for people like you. Now your DAD bless him. He means well and wants to see you do well, but what he dosent seem to understand is that he is putting you down. The last thing you need is that, so try and reason with him and say you want to do what you would be happy doing, and not what he thinks he wants you to do, after all it is your life not his. He has to be protective of you because thats what perants do, but sometimes they get it wrong. It sound like mum is on your side and I am sure she would be proud of you. This is a diffecult time for you but I can see you being of great value in helping other people. I have a daughter who is now 20 and has started to be independant but when she was about your age her mothers boyfriend (we are seperated now sadly)used to tell her she was lazy and wouldnt do any good. ( that did anoy me) But Hey, shes doing fine now, and may I say happy. Let you Dad rant on, but dont let it get to you. he needs to stop getting at you and start to listen to you. Anyway , lets stop thinking about how things are, and start thinking how things can be. keep doing your best and remember one day you will be helping people that desperatly need you. Please can you tell me what is 'World of Warcraft' I assume it is a computer game ?.
Promise me you will work on feeling good about yourself. I would love you to keep in touch. I am guessing you are a girl ? am I right or wrong ? ............Please reply and take care. ...Faith
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Parents have a habit of thinking they know better than us. That's not always the case. You seem very bothered by your father's attitude. I guess that means you care a lot about him. Try explaining him why you want to choose the health path. And maybe ask for an advice.  Parents do like it when they feel needed and respected. But the final decision is still yours and you can prove your point to your father when you succeed.
Never let anyone, no matter how important, make you think life isn't worth living.  Maybe not today, or next year, but sometime in the future you will find people that like and respect you for who you are. Meanwhile, I think Mollie is a quite reliable friend and a true angel. Maybe you can make make a friend or two with people that share your love for man's best friend.
I hope I helped you a bit.
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Hi how are you feeling this week ? I hope  you are feeling better. Don't forget message me if you want too, I have been thinking about you.....Faith

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