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i found an ex on a vacation last month she told me her first child was mine i opened a join account to help pay for the child's expenses ( shes now19 and pregnant lost her first child) im in ca shes in fl and she took all i had 35k most of this was my recently dead mothers inheritance to me. i had planed to return to fl and try to make a relationship with my daughter but now the mother drained my account to 0 and i know there is nothing i can do but i cant restore my relationship with my current gf if i cant at least regain 25k of the lost funds. i know i dont deserve another chance but i cant reverse time and change my mistake i need 25k to fix it and i need it before end of month sooner is better willing to pay it pack i have a good job and as long as i can get it in time i can save my life if not i dont think ill be able to live with myself and how badly i messed up im 40 yrs old this December can anyone help me pls
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Profile Photo by justdavenow ANGEL18K+ (21.9k points)   4 6 16
Consider this. You have no way of knowing how the money will be used but you can assume the mother grabbed it for the well being of the child. Its actually not a bad assumption. With this, know that you have contributed and feel great about that. I mean that. Feel great about yourself. Now, if this has put your current relationship on the rocks, because of money, deal with knowing that the relationship may not have been all you thought it was. True love can outlive money. And, you have a good job. So, you may actually be lucky you are discovering this now instead of later. If she leaves, ok. You can recover. I have, it will be ok.
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Profile Photo by Jones ANGEL14K+ (15.6k points)   3 7 24
im sorry to hear of your situation but this site is to offer moral support only. if you'd like to ask anything specific then we'd be more than happy to listen to you and offer friendship and advice.

I'd love to hear back from you to understand a bit more about you and maybe we can give you some help

take care
I have been thru alot since june when i met my 1st and love of my life in fl on vacation but since then shes taken over 40k from me and left me with a big whole in my soul she told me the first child she had was mine (now 19) and i still dont know if thats true she promised wed be togeather and then after the money was spent she told me i didnt try and that she couldnt wait anymore, the last week she told me she comitted suicide ( pretending to be her mother telling me this) then later that the daughter had mersa, preiviously told me she had cancer and needed meds because shes pregnant she went into great detail about how she lost the first child and how she watched her give birth to a dead child, she told me she had kidney failure, told me she was raped while waiting at the airport to come see me, i dont know how a person could say and do such evil things to someone who loves them and i cant seem to get her out of my head. im now in bad shape finansially and emotionally i cant hear any music without thinking abotu her i cant think of anythign id like to do with my life nothign seems worth the effort . whats the point of a loveless life a life without love is not worth living. i wish i could reach her and know the truth and do something to help but i dont know anyway about it , and i dont see how anyone else can help me put her from my mind words wont do it . its even worse then that while all this was happening i broke off a 16 yr engagement with another girl i tried to make it happen it just didnt feel right ., my dog died on me, the larger part of the money i gave was my only inheritance from my recently dead mother, so im now alone in a state with no family freinds or money, i have a job im good at but theres not much future in the job its enough to pay bills and get by , but without purpose to life its pretty much little more then allowing myself to suffer for as long as possable i know this all sounds like too much and far fetched but its the truth wish it wasnt believe me.
Profile Photo by Jones ANGEL14K+ (15.6k points)   3 7 24
thank you very much for sharing all of that - there's definitely quite a lot going on inyour life. I sat here stunned when reading some of the tricks you described from your partner. personally, I think some of them are unforgivable and you definitely deserve better than that, but the reality of letting go isn't always that straightforward.

you rightly point out that not having love inyour life is not much fun, but i'd also point out that having someone who can manipulate you, lie and generally make your existence a misery should have no part of your life.
this all on top of the other things you mention is quite a stack-up of issues, but id urge you to have a long deep think about what you think should be the minimum you would expect from a relationship - even write it down. sometimes seeing stuff like this actually written on a piece of paper can give you a shake!

life is relatively short and very precious. i'd love to think you could come to a conclusion with your thoughts. this is one of those times where you may have to let your head rule your heart. 9 times out of 10 its the other way round, but please remember that whatever you decide to do and no matter how hard it is in the early days, this website is only an email away.

I wish you all the best
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1. Anima Christi

Soul of Christ, sanctify me; Body of Christ, save me; Blood of Christ, inebriate me; Water from the side of Christ, wash me; Passion of Christ, strengthen me; O good Jesus, hear me; within Thy wounds, hide me; let me never be separated from Thee; from the evil one, deliver me; at the hour of my death, call me and bid me come to Thee, that with Thy saints, I may praise Thee forever and ever. Amen.

2. Prayer Against Malefice from the Greek Ritual

God, our Lord, King of ages, All-powerful and All-mighty, You Who made everything and Who transform everything simply by Your will. You Who in Babylon changed into dew the flames of the ‘seven-times hotter’ furnace and protected and saved the three holy children. You are the doctor and the physician of our soul. You are the salvation of those who turn to You.

We beseech You to make powerless, banish, and drive out every diabolic power, presence, and machination; every evil influence, malefice, or evil eye and all evil actions aimed against Your servant [name of person/s]. Where there is envy and malice, give us an abundance of goodness, endurance, victory, and charity.

O Lord, You Who love man, we beg You to reach out Your powerful hands and Your most high and mighty arms and send the angel of peace over us, to protect us, body and soul. May he keep at bay and vanquish every evil power, every poison or malice invoked against us by corrupt and envious people.

Then, under the protection of Your authority may we sing, in gratitude, ‘The Lord is my salvation; whom should I fear? I will not fear evil because You are with me, my God, my strength, my powerful Lord, Lord of peace, Father of all ages.”

Yes, Lord our God, be merciful to us, Your image, and save your servant [name of person/s] from every threat or harm from the evil one, and protect him/her by raising him/her above all evil. We ask You this through the intercession of our Most Blessed, glorious Lady, Mary ever Virgin, Mother of God, of the most splendid archangels and all Your saints. Amen!

3. Prayer for Deliverance

My Lord, you are all powerful, you are God, you are Father. We beg you through the intercession and help of the archangels Michael, Raphael and Gabriel, for the deliverance of our brothers and sisters who are enslaved by the evil one. All saints of Heaven, come to our aid.

From anxiety, sadness and obsessions, we beg You. Free us, O Lord. From hatred, fornication, envy, we beg You, Free us, O Lord. From thoughts of jealousy, rage, and death, we beg You, Free us, O Lord. From every thought of suicide and abortion, we beg You, Free us, O Lord. From every form of sinful sexuality, we beg You, Free us, O Lord.

From every division in our family, and every harmful friendship, we beg You, Free us, O Lord. From every sort of spell, malefic, witchcraft, and every form of the occult, we beg You, Free us, O Lord.

Lord, You Who said, “I leave you peace, My peace I give you,” grant that, through the intercession of the Virgin Mary, we may be liberated from every evil spell and enjoy your peace always. In the name of Christ, our Lord. Amen.

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