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Okay so I met this new kid at the first day of school and I just said hi to be friendly. We started talking and the next day we had a study hall together and we just chilled and basically, well to not give off too many details, I started to find out just from talking to him...he's a loser,basically. I could go on and on why, but I won't. But I said in my mind we could still be friends at school, no harm in that right, he does not know a ton of people...but I'm getting the vibe he likes me from his body language and him wanting to hang around me...and to be honest, maybe I like the attention, but I'm not sure if I like him, and if I do, God forbid, it would be terribly complicated! I do not really want a bf right now anyways, if he did like me.
Btw, does anyone know what this means? He told me some of his friends said because he was talking to me a lot that he likes me and I said "but you only known me 4 days" and he agreed with me, but later we were hanging out outside at the end of the day, and he gave me his number, kind of awkwardly too.
Ugh, I am so confused and disgusted, but mainly confused....if I do like him, it's not with my mind or anything I want to follow up upon! He's the same kind of "loser" my ex bf was...and I don't need another him.
If anyone has any advice, it is greatly, greatly appreciated :
Country: united states

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Profile Photo by vosmeer ANGEL5000+ (5.2k points)   1 3 10
thanks for sharing dear friend. don't worry if both of you have good vibes. and after a few days you wouldn't really know if he was a looser. things can change as well, he might just need some love to become a bit stronger. sometimes its a lack of self confidence that makes we can't move on and be strong. if i was you i would just go for it and see what happens. however, you are still young dear, and if you don't feel like all the hasskle of a re;lationship, then you just take it easy :)  its in your hands, my only advice is not to worry too much, just go with your heart!  big hug and God bless you! Jimmie

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