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I was physically, sexually, and emotionally abused and neglected as a child and am having recurrent resurgences in my depression and suicidal ideation as of late.  I have never been diagnosed, but I have extreme difficulty seeking help because of a social disorder.  I was a silent, withdrawn child with autistic tendencies which I assume made me easy prey...  I can't continue to live like this, I have resorted to substance abuse to get this far.  My first attempt was at 11 yrs old,  my last was at 21 and I was hospitalized for over a month after.  Support has been nonexistent for my emotional or social problems as I have effectively hid them from the start, this has to do with some early childhood traumas which effectively disabled me from trusting or seeking help.  The few times I have sought professional help in dealing with these matters and even after my hospitalization I was extremely distressed that all the healthcare system wanted to do was pump me full of drugs and send me on my way.  Not once during any of my encounters with health care providers did they ask or try to discuss mental health problems or issues which caused my problems.  I need real help, not just anti-depressants, but someone who can help me holistically deal with these childhood traumas which are still haunting me, causing disassociation and suicidal thoughts once more...
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Profile Photo by baker (350 points)   1
Hello, in life no matter what has happened to us we can get past it, I was raped just right out of high school, I had social and trusting issues after the fact as well. I made friends and started to talk about my problem and I also did go to a counselor that was free. At some point you will have to put your trust in someone because we can't do this on our own our problems are bigger than we are, and you must remember trying the same things that we think will lesson the problem will only work temporarily, you have to try some new positive things to get  new results you can do this.
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Profile Photo by justdavenow ANGEL18K+ (21.9k points)   4 6 17
Contact the social worker at your last hospital via phone, let them look through your records and then ask for a refferal to a seasoned mental health/professional/counselor. There is nothing better than to get these things out in the open. Additionally, meditation with a strong focus on a candle or soft music or a mantra (om) can assist in getting some control over where your brain wanders in its thoughts and memories. The past cannot hurt you now. But your brain has to realize that. It will in time. Don't give up. Finally, a holistic supplement which helps elevate mood is 5 HTP. I just bought some more today. Good stuff. My best to you
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Profile Photo by Jones ANGEL14K+ (15.6k points)   3 7 24

thanks so much for contacting us. im no health professional to offer specific help/advice, but what id love to offer you is the opportunity just to chat some more, tell me more about your situation if you like, or just lets have a general chat if thats what youd prefer.

im a good listener and can definitely give some thoughts and views even from my non professional opinion! im not going anywhere on this website and even if it takes a while to get to know you, i honestly believe we can make a big difference for you.

hope to hear back from you soon

take care

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