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When I try to stand up for myself, I am put down and everyone gangs up on me.   My Mother tells me to say something and I did try but she stands with everyone else and I am left to be a doormat or pushed in a corner to take the abuse and yelling.     I am ostrisized and hated until I have money to throw at everyone.    I can't keep living like this.

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Profile Photo by justdavenow ANGEL18K+ (21.9k points)   4 6 17
A difficult situation I am sure. I'm unsure of your place in the household but you mention having money for people so I would assume you have the ability to make money, and thus the ability to leave. If you can leave, that may be a possibility for you. Get a roommate or two, split costs, relax and have fun. A wise teacher once taught to surround yourself with people who bring out the best in you. Clearly that isn't happening for you right now. I would be very interested in more information about your situation if you would care to share. Just reply to this answer. Much love, please know you are not deserving of any mental abuse
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Thank You Justdave,  Reading your answer made me realize that I am important but sometimes the abuse is so strong that I feel I have to let them hurt me and demean me so I don't cause more harm.     The only money I get is from disability and it gets used up so quickly that I can not even pay my bills.    Today answering this question I am alone and in my bedroom to stay away from the harm.     My Mother still refuses to back me up and I will not get a meal today.   I will have to live on water and pills that I keep in my room.    I don't know what to do and would love for someone to stand up for me and show me love.     Thanks for answering
***! They're not feeding you!!! They are acting totally against the law and appear to have no morals. You are suffering 'Abuse' and it is NOT your fault. You really do need to speak to someone, whether it's your Doctor, Nurse, Neighbour or whoever you can trust to act on your behalf. To offer up any more advice on this, I would have to have more details. Anyway, take care and find someone to tell.
Profile Photo by justdavenow ANGEL18K+ (21.9k points)   4 6 17
Oh dear. Ok, lets make it a "thing" to keep talking ok? You me and anon angel gonna just talk and let you know his important you really are. If you have bills, you are an adult? Living in a home where you are ostracized. Hurt. Physically? Or just put down verbally? I will say this ... to be disabled DOES NOT MEAN YIU ARE HURTING THE "FAMILY". I almost missed your reply. If I don't, its only because I missed it. I agree with anonymous ... need to find someone to tell. But your age makes a difference. Let us know ok?
It just seems that no matter how I handle the situation it gets worse.   I am the financial person, house cleaner, companion to Mom, and whatever else is thrown at me.   I am verbally abused and I just can't seem to stand up to these people.     What am I doing wrong.     Thanks for just being there and listening so to speak.    I will never forget those that stood by me and made me feel like a someone.
Profile Photo by justdavenow ANGEL18K+ (21.9k points)   4 6 17
You are loved and your efforts are appreciated. Who exactly are these people? Hiw many are in the house and who are they specifically? It'll be ok. Let me know

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