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my friend told my crush i like him. Im afraid that ill get bullied and made fun of because of this on monday when i go back to school. but this isnt the only thing im afraid of im also afraid of losing my friend who told him because she thinks im mad at her and im not. Even tho good could come out of this what should i do?
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Profile Photo by justdavenow ANGEL18K+ (21.9k points)   4 7 17
Umm, try to call your friend and say ... "Well, its now or never, lets see if he likes me back." :) Then, be prepared. Some people, depending on if they are ready for being liked, don't handle it well. So if he says something weird or even hurtful, no worries. He's just not ready for that yet. As far as other people, just be ready to smile and shrug. Just say "It'll be ok" no matter what. Usually if someone finds you aren't bothered by something, they stop talking about it as much. And then, finally they wont talk about it at all. Remember ... love takes time. You're all just liking right now. Never move too fast. It ruins everything. My best
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Profile Photo by Jones ANGEL14K+ (15.6k points)   3 7 24
talk, talk, talk.

miscommunication or no communication is the biggest cause of resentment or misunderstandingh. face to face talking is the best thing to do, dont text or phone as you dont get emotoion or body language, talk this through with your friend so they know youre not mad with them, but they also know that some things are best kept between friends.....

good luck
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by the time u read this i am quite sure that this will have resolved itsself. so often when these things happen we think our social life is over, but i can guarentee u will laugh over this soon.your friend did make a mistake by telling a secret of yours to someone else, however i am making a leap here and believing the intentions were all good and therefore forgivable.honesty always being the best policy you should probably have a sit down with your friend and say that in future please consult with u first before spilling such personal information. as for the crush, well it could only really go one of 2 ways, so i am putting my money on u two having a date on friday, if not, no harm no foul you can move on, i am quite sure there r many other crush worthy folks! remember if this person does not have similar feelings for you at the very least they will be flattered, how could they not be?  one day you will be giving advice to your own child or grandchild or neice or nephew, and this will be a story in your repetoir. god bless you, and best wishes for a lovely life.

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