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I have become pretty obsessed with a guy and I'm completely conflicted over's like I hate him and I love him.....but I barely know him so I know it's not about him at all.....this has happened before and I'm sooooo tired of all the pain it brings.....I want to die with the pain of it right now......I know all the things I should be doing to help not feel like this but I'm sick of it all.......I hate being a human and suffering all this pain with no resolution to it at all
Country: ireland.....and don't say Samaritans...have tried them.....talking doesn't help

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Profile Photo by Clark ANGEL500 (720 points)   2

talking can help... This could... I feel sorry for you, and i think that mabey you could try putting your focus on something else... I hate clubs and stuff, and dont like talking in front of groups, so i understand you might not want to, but mabey if you like sports, drawing, writing or reading, mabey that would take your mind off it... I really hope this helps, mabey you could talk to him?laugh

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Profile Photo by justdavenow ANGEL18K+ (21.9k points)   4 6 17
You need perspective. You are trying to fill a gap in your life with the first thing that presents itself. I suggest some herbs which help calm such as ashawaghanda and rhodiola, perhaps 5 HTP, a good cross section of vitamins and several good oils, like safflower and flax seed. It really helps fix perspective, kind of amazing actually. My best to you
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I know where you are coming from. The wierd part is that the person made me feel so happy, yet so wothless. I was obsessed and infatuated by the idea of him. My every thought revolved what he would think and how he'd react. Obviously this did not work out. I catch myslef thinking of him, and hate myself for it. So what I have come up with is that he was my idea of perfection and I wanted that,yet, deep down knew that was impossible. Like every human being we expect so much from ourselves and rarely if not ever reach that "perfection". nothing is perfect and when we catch a glipse of what our mind thinks it is, we become helpless and in awe and afraid and waiting for that moment of" too good to be true". Point is, it will take time. but ask yourself..would you tell this person your every flaw and ask for help and want to build a life to be happy? everyone deserves that. Infatuation is an addicting persoanlity, like I said I know EXACTLY what you are talking about. It will be ok.

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