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whats the point of living with no one to share it with.

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asked Jul 6, 2012 by anonymous  
I'm a twenty year old college male. I've been in and out of relation ships and every relationship I've been in has ended with them leaving me for somebody else or cheating on me. i evaluate and reevaluate life trying to find what i need to change to make me the man that someone will want to stay with and be faithful with and every other version of my self that see has made me feel empty. and i'm tired of waking up and having to tell my self to get out of my bed and reminding my self to breath in and out because i cant see the point in going through life with out that somebody to share the experience with; and when i see my friends happy with their relationships i ask why they are able to get the one thing ive been looking for. and even now reading what I've just written i feel even more pathetic that this is what is making me contemplate life.
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Profile Photo answered Jul 6, 2012 by faith ANGEL22K+ (22,120 points)   3 7 33
Hi, The reason why all your relationships haven't lasted is because you haven't met the right one for you yet.
Don't change yourself, stay as you are if your happy the way you are.
There is someone special out there who is maybe thinking just the same as you are.
At 20 yrs old what's the rush,not much point in going into a relationship just for the sake of it.
You could bump in to the love of your life tomorrow, or the next day, or next week.
Don't rush it and don't try to hard. Be cool and laid  back more, be in control of the situation.
I can see that you feel the need for a partner to share your life with, but you are so young to be worried about this.
Your friends may seem happy, but I bet that's not all the time, at leased you can please yourself what you do with your time.
Be a little patient and you will find that special person and then you will realize it was worth the wait.
Whatever you do, don't get depressed about it,I would love to hear back from you if you would like to reply ... Take care...........Faith 
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Profile Photo answered Jul 6, 2012 by goodwill ANGEL24K (33,360 points)   5 12 58

You are not pathetic! Quit stressing over the whole relationship thing... my goodness you are only 20 - you are so very young and you have plenty of time to meet the right one. These girls leave you or cheat on you because they are just GIRLS. I really don't think you are doing anything wrong being yourself. Don't let a few bad experiences change who you are or make you feel empty. You are better off without these girls who don't respect you. Believe me you have plenty of time to find someone to share the rest of your life with. Don't worry about your friends or compare yourself to them. They may seem happy but they may have a different notion of a relationship than you. You seem like you take commitment very seriously, and your friends may just be with these girls for fun. It's great that you are in college. Join more activities, volunteer, find things that interest you - it is the best way to meet people who share your same ideals. and when you do meet someone, just take it slow, remember you are still young. get to really know the person before you get into a relationship. Please stop comparing yourself to others and just be happy. It will happen, relax. For now just enjoy college and focus on getting your degree. write back if you still want to talk :)

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