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I have this amazing boyfriend, who is always very supportive and caring. But i feel so alone, I dont feel like he understands that I have to cry myself to sleep just to wake up in the mornings. I feel so alone in this world and feel like no one really cares. I have no idea why I feel like this. I have always been able to put on a front and give a fake smile that everyone always thinking i am just happy bubbly person who is always very enthusiastic. Deep down all I want to do is run away and start all over again.
I just want someone to give me some guidance. I cant explain why I feel so down and sad all the time. I feel happy for a few moments and then it just goes. I then feel lower than I did before and the smallest things can set it off. I try so hard to make things right but it doesnt seem to work.
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Profile Photo by Jones ANGEL14K+ (15.6k points)   3 7 24
hi

do you have a feeling of "there must be more to life than this?" sometimes i think we can all feel like you do, so youre certainly not alone in this respect, and we all feel quite unfulfilled as human beings. we have the ability to do anything on the planet we choose to do and our lack of grasping these opportunities can leave us feeling flat. i dont know if youre at all feeling like this, but one thing you could try would be to help others - volunteer to do something, this can give you an enormous sense of wellbeing and purpose.

youre feelings toe=wards your boyfriend are probably just a manifestation of feelings about yourself - wow, that sounded a bit like a psychiatrist or something!!! ha ha

seriosly though, have a think and let me know if this may be the case? if you feel unfulfilled, then other aspects of your life will feel dull. we can fix this my friend. trust me. please email back
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Hi,

Thank you for answering back. yeah i guess that could be the case. sometimes i just find myself locked in my room and crying for hours.. sometimes over the most smallest things and i just think to myself.. "why is this happening". Do you ever get that? I have been thinking of helping children actually. Not sure how/what to do though..
Profile Photo by Jones ANGEL14K+ (15.6k points)   3 7 24
hi, thanks for emailing back!
brilliant that you would like to get into helping children - if only there were more people like you, thenb the world would be a better place. hmm, not sure what to suggest about how to get into that. maybe try googling just that, and look for anything in your area.
I think this could be exactly what youre looking for and it will give you something to focus on and be proud of and you really can make a huge difference to the welfare of others with no gain to yourself - this is the true definition of a good, good person.

how have you been feeling over Christmas? how long have you been feeling down?

speak to you soon
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Hi, I hope you had a lovely Christmas and Happy new year!

To be honest, over Christmas I felt really lonely. It was tough. Sometimes I feel like my family isnt really a family, they all live together and eat together but we don't ever talk about real issues. My father has has like a million and one problems with work and stuff and its always so upsetting around the house. Its hard when you watch all the family Christmas films; I just think about how much I want that life.

I have been googling a few Children Charities and hoping to get involved over this year, thank you so much for your advice.
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Profile Photo by dolphin007 ANGEL24K (309k points)   7 7 12
Verses in the Holy Bible about anxiety and depression:


1 Peter 5:7 ESV / 4 helpful votes

Casting all your anxieties on him, because he cares for you.

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Proverbs 12:25 ESV / 4 helpful votes

Anxiety in a man's heart weighs him down, but a good word makes him glad.

Hebrews 13:5-6 ESV / 3 helpful votes

Keep your life free from love of money, and be content with what you have, for he has said, “I will never leave you nor forsake you.” So we can confidently say, “The Lord is my helper; I will not fear; what can man do to me?”

Philippians 4:9 ESV / 3 helpful votes

What you have learned and received and heard and seen in me—practice these things, and the God of peace will be with you.

Philippians 4:6 ESV / 3 helpful votes

Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God.

Philippians 4:4 ESV / 3 helpful votes

Rejoice in the Lord always; again I will say, Rejoice.

1 Corinthians 10:13 ESV / 3 helpful votes

No temptation has overtaken you that is not common to man. God is faithful, and he will not let you be tempted beyond your ability, but with the temptation he will also provide the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it.

John 3:16 ESV / 3 helpful votes

“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish but have eternal life.

Matthew 6:25-34 ESV / 3 helpful votes

“Therefore I tell you, do not be anxious about your life, what you will eat or what you will drink, nor about your body, what you will put on. Is not life more than food, and the body more than clothing? Look at the birds of the air: they neither sow nor reap nor gather into barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not of more value than they? And which of you by being anxious can add a single hour to his span of life? And why are you anxious about clothing? Consider the lilies of the field, how they grow: they neither toil nor spin, yet I tell you, even Solomon in all his glory was not arrayed like one of these.

Psalm 91:1-16 ESV / 3 helpful votes

He who dwells in the shelter of the Most High will abide in the shadow of the Almighty. I will say to the Lord, “My refuge and my fortress, my God, in whom I trust.” For he will deliver you from the snare of the fowler and from the deadly pestilence. He will cover you with his pinions, and under his wings you will find refuge; his faithfulness is a shield and buckler. You will not fear the terror of the night, nor the arrow that flies by day,

Psalm 23:1-6 ESV / 3 helpful votes

A Psalm of David. The Lord is my shepherd; I shall not want. He makes me lie down in green pastures. He leads me beside still waters. He restores my soul. He leads me in paths of righteousness for his name's sake. Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me. You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies; you anoint my head with oil; my cup overflows.

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