The holidays have been dreadful my daughter moved a 1/2 mile from me when she got married 5 years ago and my life has been turned upside down she has manipulated my husband from day one and knew she could because he really never had my back and just criticizes me when I try to tell him... he just says it's me I need to change... but it's really getting where I am totally unhappy and I know for sure he hasn't been there for me and won't be in this situation we have been married 35 years and now have 2 grandchildren living right up the road that I love very much but now I am a babysitter whenever she feels like she needs one and of course the husband is right there saying fine ok...I do love my grandkids but I really think it may be time for me to move on without him and I am not sure I can it's really scary. Just recently it came out that I was sexually abused by a distant relative when I was just a child myself and she has know mercy and just down plays it, I didn't even want to let her know it but I did, I just think she is a user and I don't even know who she is anymore in fact she is cruel, I had a heartattake about 2 years ago and she didn't really care it was obvious. I choose life for her when I was 23 years old because my current husband and I were split up and I got pregnant and the baby was not his but she looked enough like me it wasn't even noticed until she had her second child and you can tell he is mixed which is my fault we chose not to tell her when she was little because we just wanted the best for her and all went well until the grandchild and now it's like I think people just want to laugh in our face instead of saying hey at least you chose life instead of a abortion. Just need help I am older but not dead and I am seriously thinking of moving from the family farm after 20 odd years of living here or just get rid of the husband that's caused me enough...it's just enough, she live with her now husband for a couple years before moving here and she is the biggest control freak I know of she is full of Drama without any empathy at all.. I know for sure she intends to try and make my life miserable because of the grandkid even to the point that it really scares my for the little guy he is so cute but the other granny want's war.. I pray to god for him it really breaks my heart to think that he is going to be treated different just because how he looks she won't even hold him...she is a joke and I feel like my daughter has acquired her habits control etc. I think there mission is to make my life miserable... I have to get the heck out of here I think I my be my only chance for a happy life.