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My dad died on my sister b-day and my mom has a bf and he is so mean to us he said he would hurt us and will tell us he will kill us if we call 911 but he does not beat us.

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Are you sure you can be with your dad if you die? What happen to your mother and sister if you die? Do you want them to follow you or suffer for the rest of their life? Will this solve any problem? Is there better solution?

You are a smart young man/lady and I am sure you can make a better decision to solve this problem:

Do you have a recorder (Video camera, cell phone etc.) to record what he said? Can you keep a written record of when and what he said to you? You can give this to the police later. Do you attend school? Can you tell this to the teacher or counselor? You can give them a call next time while you know he is coming to talk with you and let them listen to the conversation. It is very important to let people you trust know about what is going on!

However, if you see an immediate threat, please call the police right away. Don't worry about what he will do. There are professionals who are trained to protect people like you.

Your mother and your sister need you! Be strong, be positive! There is a wonderful future waiting for you!


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I saw what you wrote, and I understand what you are going through. I have not lost my father, but I lost many close to me. i think right now you are going through a hard time, but dying to be with your father if not the answer. You need to be here for your sister, and your mother. Your mother is with someone else now, and he may not be the best, but you can't change it for her or make her own choices. Your sisters birthday is also probably a reminder of the pain and heart ace of your fathers passing. Its hard to do, but you need to be strong for your sister, and your mother. They need you hear, and I bet if your father was here he would want your to be with them. You will not be away from him forever. He watches you grow everyday, and he is your father none and nothing can replace him. You are a wonderful person, and i can tell. You are reaching out instead of hiding your feelings, and that is the first step to healing. Please make no decisions in your life that will affect the ones that love you that are still here. Please feel free to reply back. I would talk all night if it meant helping you find out what you need to do to get through this hard and confusing time. Much blessings Your Father is watching you, and always loves you. Remember that.

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