Can somebody get me back financially on my feet ?

Question

I'm a recovering gambling addict who needs to pay my rent and pay some bills and buy food.I live in Ireland .I haven't eaten for a few days and my landlord is chasing me for rent and esb bill etc.Its such a horrible time and I've not been eating and alone in bed.. but I have a job so all isn't lost just yet but I am desperate to get my life back on track while recovery.Im paid again end of January so all I need is support until then.
Looking for a miracle and found this page today so fingers crossed..

Answer 1

Good Evening my dear

I can sympathise with you on this but one thing I have learnt from being in similar situations is that the only person you can rely on is yourself and have faith that everything will be okay in the end.

If you keep doing what you have always done, you will keep getting what you have always got.

The first thing you need to do is to try and appeal to your landlord and debtors better nature- burying your head in the sand is not productive and is not the answe. Please remember that the world is in a contant state of 'flux' which means that everything is contantly changing. You cannot sit and wallow in your problems but try to look for a solution to them.

Take some time out if you can to re-evaluate your life and situation and think about what YOU can do about it. There is not an awfullot of hope leaving your destiny in the hands of others. A positive mental attitude will surprise you and what can be done about the situation you are in.

Remember that you are an amzing individual and you will get though this I promise.

Have faith in yourself and the greater good and you will succeed.

Kin wishes and best regards

Angel Helena xx

Comments

A positive attitude is important... that can be difficult when you are down and out so long... usually those who are so positive have help or nothing going on

Answer 2

Verses in the Holy Bible about blessings:


Matthew 6:33 ESV / 28 helpful votes

But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.

Luke 12:31 ESV / 7 helpful votes

Instead, seek his kingdom, and these things will be added to you.

1 Peter 5:7 ESV / 6 helpful votes

Casting all your anxieties on him, because he cares for you.

James 5:14 ESV / 6 helpful votes

Is anyone among you sick? Let him call for the elders of the church, and let them pray over him, anointing him with oil in the name of the Lord.

Hebrews 11:6 ESV / 5 helpful votes

And without faith it is impossible to please him, for whoever would draw near to God must believe that he exists and that he rewards those who seek him.

Philippians 4:6 ESV / 5 helpful votes

Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God.

Matthew 16:26 ESV / 5 helpful votes

For what will it profit a man if he gains the whole world and forfeits his soul? Or what shall a man give in return for his soul?

Colossians 3:23 ESV / 4 helpful votes

Whatever you do, work heartily, as for the Lord and not for men,

Colossians 3:1 ESV / 4 helpful votes

If then you have been raised with Christ, seek the things that are above, where Christ is, seated at the right hand of God.

Romans 10:17 ESV / 4 helpful votes

So faith comes from hearing, and hearing through the word of Christ.

Matthew 6:31-33 ESV / 4 helpful votes

Therefore do not be anxious, saying, ‘What shall we eat?’ or ‘What shall we drink?’ or ‘What shall we wear?’ For the Gentiles seek after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them all. But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.

1 Thessalonians 4:11 ESV / 3 helpful votes

And to aspire to live quietly, and to mind your own affairs, and to work with your hands, as we instructed you,

Colossians 1:13 ESV / 3 helpful votes

He has delivered us from the domain of darkness and transferred us to the kingdom of his beloved Son,

Philippians 2:21 ESV / 3 helpful votes

For they all seek their own interests, not those of Jesus Christ.

Ephesians 6:9 ESV / 3 helpful votes

Masters, do the same to them, and stop your threatening, knowing that he who is both their Master and yours is in heaven, and that there is no partiality with him.

1 Corinthians 16:2 ESV / 3 helpful votes

On the first day of every week, each of you is to put something aside and store it up, as he may prosper, so that there will be no collecting when I come.

1 Corinthians 6:9 ESV / 3 helpful votes

Or do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: neither the sexually immoral, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor men who practice homosexuality,

Acts 2:38 ESV / 3 helpful votes

And Peter said to them, “Repent and be baptized every one of you in the name of Jesus Christ for the forgiveness of your sins, and you will receive the gift of the Holy Spirit.

Answer 3

I really need finacial help right now.. Bills are stacking up. My job has slowed down, and Im on the verge of been kicked out I don't have anywhere else to go and My daughter really needs me right now it hurts that i can't provide for her