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I do not come from a family of anyone who has done anything with themselves. The most anyone has is a high school diploma. They are negative, self centered, rude, inconsiderate, dishonest, dishonest people. I need a change, i need help, i need to fix myself and my life. I feel so broken. I need help with myself, my life, my education, my financial situation. I just need help, please. :'(
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Profile Photo by Corcoran ANGEL2000+ (2.6k points)   1 2 9

Hello :)

Firstly..Just because you have no role model at home, the fact that you realise this, means you must have one outside and have hopes/dreams for the future regardless.

Just because your family are a certain way doe not mean you have to be this way too. Families are not always good and honest and do not always create the healthiest environment for their children, by their actions or example. 

No matter what you do or what you do, say, think or feel, you will not change who they are and how they choose to act.

What you can change, is how you think, feel and behave. You can choose to live a different lifte to your family and have different hopes, dreams and ambitions. 

I can sympathise with you, I have had similar difficulties with my own family and now live a happy, fulfilled life with lots of amazing, positive people around me. I chose to spend Christmas last year with the Salvation Army and volunteers, helping to make a lovely meal for the homeless people in my area and it was the best Christmas ever!

I chose to make better life choices, against what my family believe and live by, you can too my dear :)

Please come back to me if you require further guidance.

Best wishes and good luck

Angel H xx

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