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I was drinking one night and met some people, but I  blacked out. Didn't have much that I remember and was told. Woke up with so many strange things and all I could recall was me seeing this guy pull up his pants and me freaking out"oh my god did we have sex"  I asked him the next night because I happened to see him again when I was drinking where I was staying and never got a straight answer. Yes,no, 20 seconds. I cant talk to him again and I'm terrified. I didn't have signs of losing my virginity, but I've felt sick since and missed my period (although it tends to be irregular) I'm terrified. I have no idea what I would do if I was pregnant, but it wouldn't be good. There is no way I could have a kid, and I don't know when to take a test since my period was already irregular.

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I sympathise with you. I've been through a very similar experience before too and I know how scary it all is. I'm so sorry you are going through this.

The earliest you'll be able to get an accurate reading from a pregnancy test is roughly 19 days after you had unprotected sex. If you do turn out to be pregnant there are options. You could keep the baby but, if you don't feel ready to have a child or don't want a child at this point in your life and also happen to be pro-choice then abortion is one option. Another option would be putting the child up for adoption. Only you can decide what is best for you (after speaking with doctors etc.) in that aspect but please know that there will always be someone there to support you.

Due to the nature of what happened to you, I would reccommend that you get in touch with your local rape crisis center. You can find one easily just using a search engine. They're often able to be contacted either in person, over the phone or by email. Sometimes emailing is easier because you don't feel the same preassures as talking directly to someone. They can help you with everything you're going through and if not, they can point you in the direction of someone who can.

I hope this was helpful to you in someway. You're in my thoughts. Good luck with everything, stay safe.

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