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i was looking for something on the computer the other day, and found pictures ( ***** ) of my husband  that he had taken in our bedroom, some quite obscene, i also found in the same folder pictures of women displaying themselves, he had telephone numbers addresses, and has obviously been messaging ? ringing these women, i even found an e mail he had sent to some woman who had obviously turned him down for something, asking her to send some pictures instead, this was in the month we got married !!! i found pictures of my daughter (26) in her bikini, and a picture of my sons x girlfriend he obviously accsessed from his computer, our sex life is ok but certainly not what it used to be , i confronted him and he said it was a while ago , some of the pictures have last years date,  we have been married for 6 years , its our second marriage, i just dont know what to do, i get angry and hate him, hes says he loves me but im not sure i want him anymore, it may sound petty but i cant trust him , he gives me the creeps, and keeps telling me we can sort it out, i feel our marriage has been a lie, hes a pervert and im not sure i can live my life with him , im 53 and hes 51, HELP what do i do. its been 2 months know he thinks its all forgotten and swept under the carpet, im not so sure, ive found myself imagining myself on my own, financially id struggle but im never going to forgive him am i fooling myself.
    

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This sounds like a really hard position to be in and I fully respect your strength and the huge stress you are under right now.  If he can not give you a reasonable answer to why he has these images then personally I think there is something wrong.  I think you need to ask your self and be completely honest with your feelings.  Can I live with this?  Does this man make me happy? and Do I love him?  Dont settle, you deserve to be happy and in love.  Good luck, be strong and be honest to yourself.

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