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please help me. I feel like I'm always making mistakes. I'm never thinking about my actions and the consequences to come. I'm terrified because I've made some pretty bad choices. I hate myself for it. I hate myself. my body and my personality. I hate the person I am. I don't really see a point in life. I'm always being taken an advantage of. I want to take charge of my life. my mom is constantly telling me I'm worthless. I'm looking for an answer and a way to survive. my anchor is my best friend. my one and only best friend. but I'm scared that if I make any more mistakes he'll get tired and leave. I stress myself out over everything. I've tried to be happy but I can't because I always make a stupid choice to being myself down again. please help me. I feel that the next time I make a bad choice I'll end up taking my life as a punishment for myself. I want to kill myself. I don't want to feel hurt. I don't want to cut and relapse again. I don't want to hurt the one I love.  please help me.
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Please stay strong. People who truly care about you and support you would never turn away from you because of circumstances. "Mistakes" are labels given to sub-optimal decisions. Think of it as turning a new page. The page you are facing now might be full of scribbles and messy markings. So please leave the past behind and turn a new page. Believe in yourself that you can turn your life around to the positvie side, step by step. Will power is important so stay strong. Don't listen to people who throw derogative remarks at you. Respect yourself so others cannot hurt you. Do things one step at a time. It takes time to change things but you will be there eventually if you don't look back and keep going towards your goals. The best thing is you've got the support of your loved ones. They will be the fuel of your efforts when you need them. They will be there for you. Sometimes we do need to compromise and make sub-optimal decisions, but don't lose sight of the bigger picture. Make the miserable parts as brief as possible. You will get through this. Take care and best wishes. H.

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