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Ok my mother is a touchy subject. She's one of those evil people that blames her problems on other people especially me. She thinks she's a good mother but she was never one. she treats me like a child, she pressures me to do things, she steals and never gives it back till she gets what she wants, she's not supportive of me, blames things on me and frames them on me too, bosses me around when I'm my own person, she thinks I can not succeed in life like she did, never pays back borrowed money, saying that I'm stupid and slow, Always impatient of me, controls my free will, she never listens to me, she never understands me, she doesn't know me, she's been mostly gone half my life, she blames my father that I treat her bad when he's a good man, she doesn't know she's treating me like a slave, she's so evil, black mails me, takes money from me for things I want back, uses money on her self but not for me, doesn't follow the house rules, she laughs at my pain and mistakes, never helps me with life, she making me in to her, we are always at war she never says that I'm right about her, she never changes or learns, she rarely says sorry to me, she blames my father on thing that she never accomplished, we always fight, she's always cheap, she threatens me, she hits me, when ever I do good she gets angry with me, when ever I'm confused she yells at me, she never treats me right when I'm hurt or sick, she makes fun of my childhood and teenage-hood, she never jokes around even when she looks like it, she disowns me every time shes mad at me and doesn't want to change that, she always gets in to my personal and private life, she never accepts me for who I am, she tries to change who I am when I'm comfortable of who I am, she sits behind the computer all day, she doesn't know that she's a control freak, she doesn't care about me, she leave me first chance she gets, she makes me depressed, she always tells me to tell my father things when she can tell her self, she use to make me scared, she bugs/nags me every moment she gets, I always have to correct her about things about me, she never cheers me up when I'm down, she never bonds with me, she never lets me get things done, she distracts me from fun, she so boring, we can never communicate properly, she makes me do things that I don't want to do ( mostly weird and lady like stuff which freaks and grosses me out), she embarrasses me, she's hard to be around, she always makes me go somewhere else, she restricts me from using her stuff when I just want things out to use that is mine, never cares about my interests, she wants me to give her money in the future and those are just off the top of my head rest of it is repressed.
I confronted her on this and forgets about it completely and still treats me the same way as she always has. Even the worst part she not even an alcoholic this is her normal self. What should I do?
Country: New Zealand

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Hi whoever you are,Im a bit drunk right now and its 5;43 am here in UK after party i went to(my friends bday) I just read your complain if I can call it about your mother,I couldnt read all of it as its complain after complain,as I understand you are a grown person a man as I figure out,and its about time for you to move out of your mothers home,thats the only reason you drive each other crazy,believe me you drive her mad too,and its time to take a brake and leave for a bit.after I moved out of my parents house we have more healthy relationship. Maybe you dont see it yet but the change is in you and you should take a first step and leave her home but not her,once a week or once in two weeks to visit her is good and maybe you will miss eachother.

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