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I'm afraid of love because of what happened with a previous relationship in my past. Things are so hard, especially distance relationships. I am a 17 year old male. I get told I'm very cute, sweet and a amazing guy. But things are hard because I have the power to make others happy accept myself :( I'm so close to giving up on love :( I'm afraid of it :( I'm so emotionally drained :( I'm like a broken heart just floating around :( I was in a serious relationship for 2 years. Really loved her. But then one day she gave up on me, told me she didn't love me anymore and left me for someone better. She really broke my heart. I tried for 8 months to get her back but she just.., didn't love me anymore. I need help :( God Jesus the lord I pray to everyday please send me a angel :'(
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Profile Photo by Troy (220 points)  
My best advice is to find something else to think about. You have so much time in your life to find love. Right now you should be going out with your friends having a good time. If you just focus on the positives in your life you'll find that you are surrounded by love. Your friends and family are some of the most loyal people you will ever know. They won't turn on you for someone else. Eventually, one day, a girl who truly cares about you will come. For now, live it up man, enjoy every second of youth you have because it doesn't last as long as you'd think.
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I can totally understand your pain. I went through a similar situation around the same age. Trust in the Lord with all thy might and lean not until your own understanding is what came to my mind when writing you. You may not understand why you all didn't work out, but there is a reason why. Sometimes God will allow people to leave our life because they were only meant to be there for a season. Don't let this be something that breaks you down. Try to embrace it because it either you or the person you loved learned a life lesson that will prepare you for your future. You are young and have so much to live for. Put your focus on God, education and preparing yourself for a career. The right girl will come alone when the timing is right. Learn to love and value yourself and know that Jesus love is everlasting. Anytime you feel down remember that. Start reading the book of psalms from the bible. It will bless your heart and soul. I want you to lift your head up and know that God is with you. I am praying for you.
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Profile Photo by horwood ANGEL2000+ (2.2k points)   1 17 30
sometimes people go through life without finding the one they really really love until the end i always get hurt because boys only want my body and it hurts knowing they dont look at my face as i wish someone would and wouldnt stand me up on dates like my boyfriend keeps doing i dont know if i should give up on him as he seems more interested in his friends than me and i may just give up with love but i wont forget about it i say stop trying to find someone someone will find you as when you arent looking for someone they normally show up than when you are looking for someone they wont because people are scared youll turn them down. but when someone does seem to take your eye or you take theres dont go straight for it wait until you are sure you know them and they wont ever hurt you because youll just keep getting hurt if you dont know if they will cheat or not.
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Hey, i'm the same age and completely understand. But you're still young, live it up but don't give up on love. Some of the best things come unexpected, you don't always have to go out looking for it, but let it come to you. After 2years of commitment and for her to give up so easily, maybe it's for the best she's gone. This might be a new step/beginning to something better. She's not worth the time if she can walk away that fast, you deserve a lot better. hope things get better. stay strong, there's an angel out there for you somewhere.

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