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I hate where I am it feels like im in hell I have to talk my sister out of cutting because she will regret it if she does it but I cant stop myself from it because its to hard for me to do my parents found my cuts on my arms and I told them when they argued with each other and I get stuck in the middle they didn't think I was serious but they don't know that when they argue it builds a ambience that I cant live in because it hurts to much and I feel like im going to get hurt again my dad has a short temper and im afraid he will really hurt me the only way I take my pain away is self harming and attempting/contemplating suicide and I always feel so alone and hurt all the time because of it

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Hey... I used to cut myself too. I understand how the emotions build up and the blood lets them out. There's a destiny for you that you can choose- do you believe that?

I do.

My cutting led to being a ****** addict. My problems in general led me to being in very unhealthy relationships which caused me pain and led to more drugs and cutting.

Go help someone else. Go volunteer. You are needed. You are worthwhile. You can help others and you can talk to someone who gets it. You are never hopeless and it's never too late to pick up the pieces.

Yeah, it's a mess- and it will be a mess for a while. You aren't getting what you need in your home. Know what you want, learn your needs, get what you want.

You don't have to make the mess perfect right away- just start somewhere.

You are loved inexplicitly beyond comprehension. Your path will lead you to health and happiness ... if you choose it friend.


You are in my thoughts. ***
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Hi, I'm sorry to hear about your situation as I've also experienced it. For years my parents constantly argued with eachother, they argued so often it was the norm to me. But this behaviour is not normal and you nor your sister should have to deal with it. Try and make your parents understand just how much this is effecting you and if that fails then remove yourself from the situation, seek help from possibly teachers or authority in regards to moving elsewhere. Moving away from home may be the last thing you want to do but it's probably the best thing to do in your situation.


Also, you say you can't cope with the thought of your sister cutting but do it yourself, you need to realise that the way you value and love your sister is the same way she does of you and that cutting yourself or ending your life is not the answer. I suggest every time you think of cutting yourself, imagine your sister. Imagine her harming herself and how much you couldn't bare it.
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Please treasure yourself. The more difficult life is, the more important it is for you to be strong both physically and psychologically. Please take good care of yourself. Your body appreciates some love from the owner, especially when things get tough. My friend said something that impresses me: “Please use your body to protect your soul, don’t let your soul destroy your body.” I find these words very useful. Sending along a little hug, take care. I hope you are feeling better soon.
This is not your life, this is your parents life and they are doing a terrible job of getting you two where you need to be in life.  I would suggest you try to get out of the situation if you can.  When they argue, pray.  God will confort you and hush them.  But remember He has a plan for your life, this is not your life!  You have not begun to tell your story yet.  And like someone said, your destiny maybe to seek out and help other kids in your situation.  Focus on the positive as much as possible.

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