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im12 everything is going bad, no one cares about me and what i think. ive had hope for the last 4 years but nothing has changed. i cant take it anymore i may be young and have lots more life to live but it seems like theres no point. breakdowns are happening all the time on a regular basis. i cant even talk much anymore
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12 was the worst year of my life. I am older now, but I can still remember being twelve years old. I suffered from severe panic attacks and depression- to the point that I could barely function. I would just cry and freeze up. My family had no idea what to do for me.  

Am I better now? Most of the time. Yes, I still have breakdowns, but they don't last as long. And I've curbed the panic attacks for the most part.  I have found things that help me get through the worst of the days- favorite songs that cheer me up, an inner way of deciding that I am not going to give in.  

It's not easy, it takes time. But I do know this- It's worth it.  Since I was twelve I have fallen in love, I've made some of the best friends of my life, I've gone to school, I've learned new things.  

I know how hard it can be- the pain, the struggle, those days when it feel like it will never, ever end.  And I'm sorry that you're having to go through that.  It really does feel like hell. I can't tell you what will make it better, what will give you hope. Personally, I think a great deal of my strength came from God- though most days I completely ignored him, or doubted him altogether.  As I said- I can't tell you what the trick will be to make it through. But I know that you can make it.  That I do know. Find a little piece of heaven to help you through the days when it feels like pure hell. Know that there are many out there who have reached rock bottom and came back up to the surface, who are still alive today.  It's not hopeless.

I hope you find some good friends who will offer you support when you need it, who will understand and build you up. I wish you the best of luck.
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Hey Anonymous,

I'm not going to pretend I understand fully what you're going through but I have witnessed it happen before and I know how hard it is. What you've got to remember is that you are amazing human being. To keep hopeful even when you feel none is how powerful and determined you are. I know this sounds corny but there is a way out. A light at the end of the tunnel.

Being 12 is a hard age to be and its an awful time of insecurity but what I find is the people who you thought didn't care are the ones who have been there all along. But in all seriousness you can't stay silent. Go talk to someone who can help you because no matter what you think there is always someone who will care even if your family and friends don't.

Talk to an expert who can help you battle these feelings, such as a doctor or a teacher at your school, a family member or even a talk line. Don't be scared, trust me they won't judge you or think you're weak. It is much more stronger to ask for help than let yourself drown

I sincerely wish you luck from someone who was in a similar place to you. It does get better and the future will get brighter
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