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Hi. I have aspergers syndrome and I sometimes can't hold social connections to people. I do have some friends but I feel one day they will be gone. (They all have girlfriends and Boyfriends). I was in a relationship two months ago until it was called off and I feel it was kind of my fault. I felt that after the break up, no one would like to go out with me. I felt like the person I was with left when he truly knew me. I just feel that if I end up alone with all my friends gone. I probably commiut suicide. I'm scared.
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Hi!  Are you familiar with The Beatles song, 'In My Life'???  It's about people and places coming and going in one's life.  'Some have changed, some forever not for better... some have gone and some remain'.  If you're not familiar, you can do an internet search for the lyrics.  It's a pretty song, usually makes my cry though when I hear it.  (Makes me think of my Grandmother that's passed).  One thing is certain... During your life (and everyone's life)... You will 'lose' people and you will 'gain' people. You are part of the web of life, and the many intricate threads where people will come and go in your life.  It's just what happens.  One friend or lover may leave your life... but soon enough... another will enter your life and will leave a 'thread' for you to develop your life further.  I've had a few boyfriends... and even had a husband at one time.  When I thought all was lost/gone... I found a perfect match for me!  I was just 'open' to let it happen.  I'm happy now... He takes care of all my 'whims'!!!  It can happen for you too... just let the past, fears, and worries go.  You too, will be open to accept wonderful new things!!!
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You are not defined by a romantic relationship. I'm really sorry that your relationship didn't work out, but sometimes that just how it goes. I know that might not sounds reassuring but theres gonna be someone else. Someone who just gets you. I feel like I can promise you that. But your friends! Thats so different. They're there for you right now. Imagining them leaving you is way off. They are right there, but they aren't mind readers. Talk to them, they know you better than you think. You'll always have people around you, in some way, they're there
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Dear LonelyAutistic,

      I guess that you could say kind of the same about me.  My problem is that I relate to people's emotions, and not really to a lot of what they are saying. I can give a lot of random facts, and try to give opinions. I listen a lot, though.  You are right, it does feel lonely when a lot of people you know have relationships going on. I found a help in the scared aspect as well as the loneliness. I found one relationship that I can never be completely be alone with.  He is Jesus.

However, Jesus is God. Psalm 110:1, "The LORD said unto my Lord, Sit thou at my right hand, until I make thine enemies thy footstool."   John 10:30, "I and my Father are one." God is holy.  Isaiah 5:16, "But the LORD of hosts shall be exalted in judgment, and God that is holy shall be sanctified in righteousness."  
And a holy God must judge sin.  Romans 3:23, "For all have sinned and come short of the glory of God."
  Romans 6:23, "For the wages of sin is death,..."  
Revelations 21:8, "But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death. "  
Isaiah 1:4, "Ah sinful nation, a people laden with iniquity, a seed of evildoers, children that are corrupters: they have forsaken the LORD, they have provoked the Holy One of Israel unto anger, they are gone away backward. "

This is why Jesus came to earth for us.  John 3:16, "For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life."  Romans 6:23, "For he wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ the Lord."
You do no get this relationship automatically.  Romans 10:9, "But if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shall believe in thine heart that God hath raised hi from the dead, thou shalt be saved."
Ephesians 2:8,9, "For by grace are ye saved through faith;and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast."

This is what I wanted to tell you.

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