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I have been through so much in my life and I can't take anymore! At the age of 20 I had a stroke, at 22 I had a fire blow up on me, at 42 I had a cardiac arrest, at 43 I had open heart surgery and now at 47 I am financially dying! I am so far in debt and now unemployed I don't know what to do. I am about to lose my house, and my car. I have poor credit form all of the sky high medical bills that I can't even get a loan to hold us over! I sit here and look at all these stars and how they blow so much money on extravagant dinners, parties, clothes, hair and makeup. I just don't understand. I have always been the better guy,helping anyone that needed help. I have even given my last dollar away to people just to help them. But when it comes to me needing help I can't find a single person willing to do anything! I guess the old saying "the good guy always finishes last" is true! All I want is to be able to get my bills current till I can find another job! I have applied at so many and have only had a few interviews and of course I always hear is "I'm sorry but you are just over qualified for this position" You should be thankful that I am! I am so depressed now and just want everything to be over with! I don't know what else to do! If I end it at least my wife will have the life insurance to get everything back on tract!
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I just want this life to be over. I can't handle it anymore!
  You are in an emotional continuation of what is emotionally familiar...
Crisis is familiar to you... it was in your childhood and so emotionally you have continued
the same painful feelings into your adulthood... fear, anguish, grief --> all familiar...
  See the fact that the family you are from caused you to feel all the painful feelings that
you still feel to this day... It's not a good feeling - but it is "familiar" .... Deal with your "inner
demons" or they will continue to deal with you... Focus on who or what hurt you... grieve...
cry.... scream out the anger.... tell yourself you don't want to feel this way any longer and
deal with all the inner pain.... it's is YOU that has made the choices that have caused you to be in the situation that you find yourself in... it's your painful feelings that have caused you to make these poor choices.... it's time to confront it...... You can get on the healing path and heal!
think big or rich, stop thinking you gotta too much. our brains controls the future trust me. and thats all i can say.......................................................................................................................................................................................................................................try it!!!!!!
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Profile Photo by HOPE ANGEL24K (66k points)   7 11 38

"Our importance is not only based on us partaking in The Light, but also because we all have an important task to fulfil while here on earth. As one NDEr put it: “No-one would be here unless we have a task.” "

"One task that NDErs seem to agree on is to learn about love. We do that in a world limited by time and space where we have to make our choices. Many NDErs will agree we have a free will and we are free to choose our way through our world. But since we are part of a Unity Universe our interconnectedness makes that everything we do has an effect somewhere else. All our actions, even the seemingly insignificant ones, ripple through the universe. They have an effect. They do something. They create. Actually, we create. We have a creative power through what we do and think. One NDEr said:
Everything I do has influence on everything.… Nothing is lost. It is a kind of law of conservation of energy. That is why we shouldn’t do to others what we don’t want for ourselves. Moreover, what we send, we’ll attract. We should also be mindful of our thoughts, because we create with our thoughts.

Through our choices we learn about love. From life-reviews we know that we always have many options in life. And the more difficulties we have in life, the more interesting the options become that we can choose from. It seems to be very beneficiary when we would choose for those options that bring love and peace. This means that it is best to act in accordance with our inner core, which is our particle of The Light. When we do that, we create positive ripples that travel through the universe. They have a soothing, healing, energising and/or inspiring effect somewhere, and it is bound to return to us in some or other form."

God Bless You, Angel!!
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Hi Scott,

I think you are a very special person for having overcome all that life has thrown at you.

Why give up now?, There is a reason why you are in this life, so be proud of this. As you say, you have helped so many and I am sure that life will reward you for this. Maybe the reason you have not gotten a job yet, is that the jobs were not good enough for you and you deserve much better, raise your bar higher on the job front, you truly deserve it and also ask them for constructive feedback you can use for future applications and interviews. Having lost people very close and dear to me, I can tell you that no money in the world would ever replace them and I am sure your wife would see it the same way. You are her rock at this time, she needs you.  You may be surprised but in the most desperate times, there are always chances for hope, you may find someone who you would not have expected, may help you out or keep looking for others in your extended network that may be able to assist. Also be inventive, do you have any items you could sell, no longer required, check if you could trade a skill for food or pay bills perhaps and definitely talk to the people you owe money too, explain the situation advise you are very keen on getting a new job, who knows they may have something available.
Also, bear in mind at the end of the day no one will rate you on how you settled your bills, but if you were a good husband, friend and person. You can do this.
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Dear to whom it concerns have faith because when you have that the impossible becomes possible. Believe that God will help you in all areas you need helping and he will. I prayed that you gain all you need so believe it will happen by him and it will. As you deserve that and more.
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