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I just lost my job and got arrested in one month. I have also accumulated $350+$25daily in a nearly paid bank loan lost my fiancée and live in a state without any family. Found out I owe $130 to another state court in a week. I feel useless and ashamed living off my ex and his family he is currently paying my court fee for the state I live in . His and everyone else's lives would be better without me I see no other way out...
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|Hi Rebecca,

I know things seem desperate at the moment, but things will change. I am in a bad situation myself and I have thought people are better off without me. But in moments of clarity, usually when someone close demonstrates how important you are in their lives (in my case, my two little daughters) or a friend likes to spend time with you or any little thing that tells you, maybe quiet and subtle, how valued you are....this is life affirming! Spend time with loved ones.
Debts will come and go...don't worry about money....something will turn up. At least that's what I say when the French government are chasing me for 3000 dollars that I don't have!
I moved back to England!
God bless you and hold strong and believe that you are loved!
Paul
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Dear Becca,

The only way out is to stand up, find a job, then pay them back once you can!

We all need help in our lives. Human survive and are successful because we help each other! They help you now, and you will help them in the near future.

Just keep trying your best, you will fight through this difficult time!!

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