Asking For Help is Not a Sign of Weakness! It is a brave and critical First Step! ASK a Question Now!
0 votes
I am severely depressed and I just want to find myself.  I feel like I used to be this really great person and I just can't find her anymore.  I have a 9 year old daughter, who I love with all my heart.  I also have a 2 month old daughter.  I am a single mother to both.  The baby's father is married, but he told me from the beginning that he was on his way out of his marriage and it was very toxic.  I never thought that he would disassociate himself from his daughter, as well as me.  I truly felt like I could be that person that I lost so many years ago.... when we were together, I was able to be myself and being with him I felt so good about myself.  Then it all failed and my daughter has never met her father.  I decided to just accept that men are all the same, I'm unlovable, and I will just be alone forever.... I truly feel this way, but a part of me just wants there to be one good man that will just be good to me... I wish he was real.  I just feel horrible about life and the way that it is going for many reasons, much more than the love aspect.  I am so thankful for my girls and I try to be a positive person, but sometimes I just can't help but revert back into my depressive hole.  Back to my question.... how do I find my true self?

Thank you in advance for your time!
Country: US

Your answer

By submitting an answer you warrant and confirm to us that you agree to comply with the Three Laws of Find Angel : Not-for-Profit, Positive, and Equal. Thank you for making this world a better place, Angel!
Please Contact Us if you need any technical help! Get daily Angel Help Request Notification here!
Be Someone’s Angel Today!

Please enter your answer in the box below:

Your name to display (optional):
Privacy: Your email address will only be used for sending these notifications.
Anti-spam verification:
To avoid this verification in future, please log in or register.

1 Answer

0 votes
Don't blame ur self for someone,s else who is very selfish... ive been in your position too... many years ago life may look bleak at moment but your learning from this experience you have eyes on the front of your face to go forward  never look back make a small change each day and tell yourself every morning you are worthy you are speical and write down all the things you need from a man and don't, wavier from it write it on a full moon and buy rose quartz ...I promise you when you love yourself you will find love and all men are not the same from experience I know you just haven't met ur soulmate yet but your soul needs too heal first visualize a gate step through don't,t look back xx

Share this question

Welcome to Angels Online Help Desk, where you can ask questions and receive answers from the public community of ANGELS - people share similar vision and mission of helping others and making this world a better place.

You can ask or answer questions without registering. SPAM/SCAM or any for-profit message is NOT allowed here. This is NOT intended for Financial or Travel Support, and this is NOT a Crowdfunding Site, but you can post links to your campaign. We will not contact you for any personal information.

Please note that all questions and answers here are OPEN to the PUBLIC (everyone in the world) and are non-confidential. We do NOT evaluate or guarantee the accuracy of any content. We provide the platform for people to share PERSONAL EXPERIENCE and express PUBLIC OPINION. It is NOT a replacement for professional help.

::Terms of Service::

::Get Help Request Alert::



If you or someone you know is in an emotional distress or suicidal crisis, please also call:
The Lifeline (US) at 1-800-273-TALK (8255)
The Hopeline (US) at 1-800-SUICIDE (784-2433)
National Domestic Violence (US) at 1-800-799-SAFE (7233)
National Sexual Assault Hotline (US) at 1-800-656-HOPE (4673)
Victims of Crime Connect (US) at 1-855-4VICTIM (855-484-2846)
Boys Town (US) at 1-800-448-3000
Dial 211 (US) at 211
The Trevor Project (US) at 1-866-488-7386
GLBT National Hotline (US) at 1-888-843-4564
TRANS Lifeline (US) at 1-877-565-8860
Crisis Text Line (US) Text START to 741741
Samaritans (UK) at 08457 90 90 90
Mind Infoline (UK) at 0300 123 3393
Rethink Mental Illness (UK) at 0300 5000 927
Breathing Space (Scotland) at 0800 83 85 87
Samaritans (Ireland/ROI) at 1850 60 90 90
1life (Ireland/ROI) at 1800 24 7 100
The Lifeline (New Zealand) at 0800 543 354
The Lifeline (Australia) at 13 11 14
NGF Hopeline (Philippines) at (632) 804-HOPE(4673) or 2919
Visit Befrienders for other countries:
Argentina: +5402234930430
Australia: 131114
Austria: 017133374
Belgium: 106
Bosnia & Herzegovina: 080 05 03 05
Botswana: 3911270
Brazil: 212339191
Bulgaria: 0035 9249 17 223
Canada: 5147234000 (Montreal); 18662773553 (outside Montreal)
Croatia: 014833888
Denmark: +4570201201
Egypt: 7621602
Finland: 010 195 202
France: 0145394000
Germany: 08001810771
Hong Kong: +852 2382 0000
Hungary: 116123
Iceland: 1717
India: 8888817666
Ireland: +4408457909090
Italy: 800860022
Japan: +810352869090
Mexico: 5255102550
New Zealand: 0508828865
The Netherlands: 113
Norway: +4781533300
Philippines: 028969191
Poland: 5270000
Russia: 0078202577577
Spain: 914590050
South Africa: 0514445691
Sweden: 46317112400
Switzerland: 143
United Kingdom: 08006895652
USA: 18002738255
You are not alone. Please reach out.


Inform me of new Angel Help Request

6.9k questions

15.1k answers


625 users

Related questions

0 votes
2 answers 185 views
Profile Photo asked Nov 25, 2014 by helpmefindme (120 points)   1 1
+1 vote
4 answers 276 views
+1 vote
4 answers 180 views
+4 votes
17 answers 1.5k views