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where can I get professional help for this problem? I am very alone tried dating sites, tried waiting for God to help me and the eight or so years I have been wanting a significant other i have yet to find someone. I can not ask women out face to face, only over text or im. I am scared
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Profile Photo by dolphin007 ANGEL24K (279k points)   7 7 12
Verse in the Holy Bible about relationship:


Galatians 1:10 ESV / 54 helpful votes   

For am I now seeking the approval of man, or of God? Or am I trying to please man? If I were still trying to please man, I would not be a servant of Christ.

Colossians 3:2 ESV / 47 helpful votes   

Set your minds on things that are above, not on things that are on earth.

1 Corinthians 6:19-20 ESV / 25 helpful votes   

Or do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit within you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. So glorify God in your body.

Ephesians 5:22-33 ESV / 22 helpful votes   

Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife even as Christ is the head of the church, his body, and is himself its Savior. Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit in everything to their husbands. Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her, that he might sanctify her, having cleansed her by the washing of water with the word, ...

Romans 8:5 ESV / 20 helpful votes   

For those who live according to the flesh set their minds on the things of the flesh, but those who live according to the Spirit set their minds on the things of the Spirit.

1 Corinthians 6:9-11 ESV / 15 helpful votes   

Or do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: neither the sexually immoral, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor men who practice homosexuality, nor thieves, nor the greedy, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God. And such were some of you. But you were washed, you were sanctified, you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and by the Spirit of our God.

Romans 12:1-2 ESV / 15 helpful votes   

I appeal to you therefore, brothers, by the mercies of God, to present your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and acceptable to God, which is your spiritual worship. Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect.

Romans 6:16 ESV / 12 helpful votes   

Do you not know that if you present yourselves to anyone as obedient slaves, you are slaves of the one whom you obey, either of sin, which leads to death, or of obedience, which leads to righteousness?

Genesis 2:24 ESV / 11 helpful votes   

Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh.

2 Corinthians 5:17 ESV / 8 helpful votes   

Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old has passed away; behold, the new has come.

Leviticus 18:22 ESV / 8 helpful votes   

You shall not lie with a male as with a woman; it is an abomination.

Galatians 5:19-21 ESV / 7 helpful votes   

Now the works of the flesh are evident: sexual immorality, impurity, sensuality, idolatry, sorcery, enmity, strife, jealousy, fits of anger, rivalries, dissensions, divisions, envy, drunkenness, ******, and things like these. I warn you, as I warned you before, that those who do such things will not inherit the kingdom of God.

1 Corinthians 11:1-34 ESV / 7 helpful votes   

Be imitators of me, as I am of Christ. Now I commend you because you remember me in everything and maintain the traditions even as I delivered them to you. But I want you to understand that the head of every man is Christ, the head of a wife is her husband, and the head of Christ is God. Every man who prays or prophesies with his head covered dishonors his head, but every wife who prays or prophesies with her head uncovered dishonors her head, since it is the same as if her head were shaven. ...

2 Samuel 22:31 ESV / 7 helpful votes   

This God—his way is perfect; the word of the Lord proves true; he is a shield for all those who take refuge in him.

Romans 8:1 ESV / 6 helpful votes   

There is therefore now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus.

Romans 1:26-27 ESV / 6 helpful votes   

For this reason God gave them up to dishonorable passions. For their women exchanged natural relations for those that are contrary to nature; and the men likewise gave up natural relations with women and were consumed with passion for one another, men committing shameless acts with men and receiving in themselves the due penalty for their error.
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have the courage to speak up. Introduce yourself to someone and be nice. I'm sure you'll find one. You don't find love it finds you. I tell you this coz it found me before.
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Profile Photo by goodwill ANGEL24K (33.8k points)   5 12 59
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You are not the first person who has trouble speaking to the opposite sex. Don't feel bad. I would suggest you take a speech or acting class at your school or community college. I was pretty shy myself and it helped me. After I saw I was not the only one making a fool of myself, I felt more comfortable speaking. You need to find the courage to speak up, and unfortunately that is only gained through experience. These classes can help you see that even if you feel embarrassed or do something "embarrassing" its not the end of the world. A lot of the times people can't talk face to face because they are afraid they will sound stupid or do something wrong. Be polite and be yourself. You can always explain you are shy, and you can always apologize if you feel you said something wrong.

Do you have any female friends? I would suggest practice talking to them. I have done this with some of my guy friends who are pretty shy, two of them are married now ;)You can always practice with us :) I would also suggest joining some extracurricular activity or volunteering somewhere to find people who are interested in the same things you are. It's easier to talk to people when you are part of group. Maybe you can invite several people to do things and eventually work your way up to just one on one. Don't let this stress you out. It will come more naturally, you just have to actually ask.

Don't be scared. What is the worst thing a girl can do when you ask her out? say no, and that won't kill you. Think of it as her loss :) True no one likes feeling rejected but you never know until you ask. Again, I am here if you want to practice or talk more about this. Good luck

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