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My ex cheated on me and then kicked me out to move his current girlfriend in. This was just over a year ago. I ended up having to move to my mothers which was a nightmare since she is a drug user and an alcoholic. We are so rural that we have no mass transit, no mailbox, my phone only works for texting and I have no vehicle. I can't do this any longer and have hit my limit of being verbally abused and not being able to get to food or look for work or even see another human being. I have a car that is 3 years illegal on tags since it won't pass smog, has no brakes, a steering fluid leak, 3 bald tires and a spare and electrical problems to boot. Otherwise, I would gladly live in my car to get away from here. I have made several pages on funding sites and angel/helper sites to no avail. I have no other relatives and my friends are either all gone or people my ex slept with who I don't interact with anymore. I can't even get food stamps anymore because when they gave me emergency SNAP last year they stopped them because I had been a college student 5 months earlier and there is now a rule that unless you drop out, graduate or are dismissed that you are still considered a student whether you are actively going to school or not so they billed me almost $300 of which I didn't have, so now I owe them back even though I had zero income. I have used my Facebook and even my personal webpage on Blogger to ask for help. I am out of ideas and mentally and physically I am at the end. Even my meds aren't helping the depression. We don't have mental health services up here either. I am in between Palm Springs and Temecula. I just want a place to live where I can earn my keep and find a job. Being able to buy food would be great as well. Does anyone have any ideas? I don't know where to turn anymore.
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Im sorry your in such a bad place at the moment but it wont always be that way,
It hasn't always been that way!
They tend to project their own feelings about their own self and their own lives onto others, don't take it in, its her own personal rubbish NOT yours, let her carry it.
Life changes, guaranteed.
Good luck to the person who's with your ex, she'll need it! sounds like ultimately you got a lucky escape.
We have a magazine in the uk called The Lady, in there you find all the "Full time live in" jobs, cleaner, carer, helper etc..
Search the web for live in jobs, scrape together as much cash as you can (sell what you don't actually need like the car, scrap man collects round here) for travel $ and start to apply.
You have managed to get this message on the web, you are not cut off from life, we are here, you may be physically alone but that's all, you can still communicate with the world.
There are plenty of sites you can use for cv, do you have web cam? request to be interviewed via that to save every ones time and $, shows initiative!
Loads of support groups out there too for people who are effected by drug and alcohol use by family members, they are really good, solidify in your brain that you are not alone.
As for the debt you currently have, try not to stress it too much, if you aint got it you cant pay it.
Write, phone, e mail them and explain where your at, nothing wrong with being honest,
tell um as soon as your back on your feet you will sort a repayment plan, you want to pay them back, they will accept this as it's better to get it back slowly that to not get it back at all. You never know what's around the corner. They may even help, it only takes one person in the system with a streak of humanity in them to make a difference. They are around!
I leave you with light and love in the certain knowledge that what goes down must come up xx
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1. Anima Christi

Soul of Christ, sanctify me; Body of Christ, save me; Blood of Christ, inebriate me; Water from the side of Christ, wash me; Passion of Christ, strengthen me; O good Jesus, hear me; within Thy wounds, hide me; let me never be separated from Thee; from the evil one, deliver me; at the hour of my death, call me and bid me come to Thee, that with Thy saints, I may praise Thee forever and ever. Amen.

2. Prayer Against Malefice from the Greek Ritual

God, our Lord, King of ages, All-powerful and All-mighty, You Who made everything and Who transform everything simply by Your will. You Who in Babylon changed into dew the flames of the ‘seven-times hotter’ furnace and protected and saved the three holy children. You are the doctor and the physician of our soul. You are the salvation of those who turn to You.

We beseech You to make powerless, banish, and drive out every diabolic power, presence, and machination; every evil influence, malefice, or evil eye and all evil actions aimed against Your servant [name of person/s]. Where there is envy and malice, give us an abundance of goodness, endurance, victory, and charity.

O Lord, You Who love man, we beg You to reach out Your powerful hands and Your most high and mighty arms and send the angel of peace over us, to protect us, body and soul. May he keep at bay and vanquish every evil power, every poison or malice invoked against us by corrupt and envious people.

Then, under the protection of Your authority may we sing, in gratitude, ‘The Lord is my salvation; whom should I fear? I will not fear evil because You are with me, my God, my strength, my powerful Lord, Lord of peace, Father of all ages.”

Yes, Lord our God, be merciful to us, Your image, and save your servant [name of person/s] from every threat or harm from the evil one, and protect him/her by raising him/her above all evil. We ask You this through the intercession of our Most Blessed, glorious Lady, Mary ever Virgin, Mother of God, of the most splendid archangels and all Your saints. Amen!

3. Prayer for Deliverance

My Lord, you are all powerful, you are God, you are Father. We beg you through the intercession and help of the archangels Michael, Raphael and Gabriel, for the deliverance of our brothers and sisters who are enslaved by the evil one. All saints of Heaven, come to our aid.

From anxiety, sadness and obsessions, we beg You. Free us, O Lord. From hatred, fornication, envy, we beg You, Free us, O Lord. From thoughts of jealousy, rage, and death, we beg You, Free us, O Lord. From every thought of suicide and abortion, we beg You, Free us, O Lord. From every form of sinful sexuality, we beg You, Free us, O Lord.

From every division in our family, and every harmful friendship, we beg You, Free us, O Lord. From every sort of spell, malefic, witchcraft, and every form of the occult, we beg You, Free us, O Lord.

Lord, You Who said, “I leave you peace, My peace I give you,” grant that, through the intercession of the Virgin Mary, we may be liberated from every evil spell and enjoy your peace always. In the name of Christ, our Lord. Amen.

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