Hi Anonymous,

If airline ticket is too expensive, could you please also consider AMTRAK or Bus? It will take much long (almost two days), but it is also much cheaper. I just checked, it is about $170 for the train instead (less than 1/3 of the airline price).

Maybe your fiance’s dad can help with part of the fees? It is very important to have a…[Read more]

If you live in "a world of sadness, loneliness, regret, what if’s" and "the only color" "is grey", then OPEN the "DOOR", walk out and away from this world you created, you shall see hope. With faith, you would keep walking into a wonderful and colorful world of the future.

"Only if you have been in the deepest valley, can you ever know how…[Read more]

Dear Charlotte,

These two girls can find a place/solution which both are comfortable with.
Don’t limit yourself to a coin, which has only two sides – there are solutions that could meet both of your desire and avoid the uncomfortable situations.

For example, you said you would like to live in the nature "with better air quality, because I have…[Read more]

8000 BC in Egypt, a slave (he was not given a name) in chains asked why …

1939 WWII air-raid shelters in Gresford, children lost their parents asked why …

1961 West Berlin, Ursula Bach heard the news about the WALL that would cause her separation from the father of her child forever and asked why …

2016 home in USA, Mike suffering from…[Read more]

Dear Shannice,

I sincerely hope you trust me that your family DO care about you. It is just hard for them to understand how you feel and what you need. It is difficult for common people (without training) to comprehend and know what is the right thing to do or say, even when you are completely honest and open to them about your feeling, which I…[Read more]

Dear Sir,

I want to thank you for being a wonderful person who has helped so many people to achieve more!
I do understand that you feel a bit depressed because of the job issue. However, I believe it could create new opportunities for you. Maybe it is time to do something you have always dream about doing? Start a new business, a hobby,…[Read more]

Dear Marie,

Firstly, I hope you have the thankful spirit of this holiday to those who once loved you deeply and provided you shelter. You still have your family and you still have the chance to change their mind.

At the same time, I would suggest that you take this chance to reflect and see the situation from their perspectives. What does your…[Read more]

Dear Lulu.

I feel sad to know you are living in a problematic family with constant verbal abuse. I understand the significant negative impact on both of you and your little sister’s life.

However, I am at peace after reading your words. I see hope and light. I see a wonderful, strong, loving, and caring soul with deep understanding and…[Read more]

Dear Dee,

Do you exercise?
After an intense workout,  we may feel tired and weak, but internally our muscles rebuild and grow to make us stronger and prepared for the next bigger challenge.

I belive this is the state you are in. I would like to give you a big high-five and hug for doing so great under such big challenge. What you need now is…[Read more]

Dear Friend,

I do not want to argue with you. Most argument ends up at least one party going even further to the extreme in order to defend and prove his/her statement. This is especially true when someone has a strong believe that he/she is the only one who see the picture while everyone else doesn’t understand at all.

If I may humbly ask,…[Read more]

Dear J,

Thank you for sharing your story!

I understand how difficult it is to grow up in a dysfunctional family. You are incredible!

It seems that you mon doesn’t understand you and vice versa. And I hope you would agree that both of you are responsible for this. One way to release such anger and negative feeling toward someone is to think from…[Read more]

Sometimes we want something so bad that we forget why we want it in the first place.

You want someone to care and love you. If this man doesn’t care about this relationship anymore, why should you waste you time and even considering giving up your precious life? Why? What problem does it solve?

"i’m having thoughts about ending my life rather…[Read more]

Dear Isabelle,

If this is your goal "I selfishly want my own life and my own love.", then I suggest the first step is to love, value,  and respect yourself!!

Then I hope you can actively searching for real solution. It is hard to find it if you overcomplicate the problem. If your boyfriend and his family hate you and cannot accept you because of…[Read more]

Hi Hannah,

Our ancestor look at the sky and see the flying birds, which starts more than two thousand years of aviation …
They made wings, they built kites, balloons … all kinds of creative flying machines … most of them failed, fell to the ground, die …
Then comes the gliders, flyers, airships, aircraft, spaceship … and recently UAVs…[Read more]

Hi Alyanna,

Suicide is not an answer nor a solution to your problem.

Please don’t trust those tests online. Instead, please talk with your parents and ask them to take you to see a doctor.  

Please never let these medical terms define yourself. They are invented for other reasons. There are so many grey area and unknowns. It could be temporary…[Read more]

One of the best advice of decision making is to "Pretend Like You’re Advising a Friend" – picture yourself as a wise old man/woman, and pose the question to said imaginary person.

Reference:

Empower Yourself – Do…[Read more]