Hi There,

Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts. You are not alone at all.
It comes down to goals and life purpose. One of the most difficult questions we ask ourselves: what I want to achieve in my life and what value I bring to this world …
People might think this is the last question you want to ask when you are depressed. However,…[Read more]

Trust the past
It is the best path
Keep the flow
Like water
Moving forward
Droplets of beauty and love

You are not lost, you are just walking your own path
Someone believe you are the best

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Dear Bre,

Please call your parents/grandparents and ask for their support and help.
I understand you was determined to be independent for some reason (right or wrong, I won’t judge), but you and your baby need their help at this time!

There are organizations specialized on this and might help:
Toll-free teen pregnancy hotline from  American…[Read more]

Dear Emma,

No, you don’t hate yourself, instead you hate the situation and condition you are in, which CAN be changed.
Please know that you are not alone. Many people do care about you and will be willing to help.
Please share with us the problems you are facing and we can find better solution to tackle one at a time.

Please pick up the phone…[Read more]

https://suicideprevention.ca/need-help/

Crisis Centres Serving Ontario
If you are in crisis now please call any of the crisis line numbers listed below or dial the local emergency telephone number (often 911) in your area.

You can also call if you are not in crisis, seeking additional information. If you come across information in this page…[Read more]

Dear Anonymous,

Thank you for sharing. I recommend that you watch Jordan B. Peterson on 12 Rules for Life:

You are not alone, please talk with a doctor or call the helpline anytime:
The Lifeline (US) at 1-800-273-TALK (8255)
The Hopeline (US) at 1-800-SUICIDE (784-2433)

Dear Anonymous,

Thank you for sharing your story. The leaders should always remember the negative impact on everyone involved in a war directly or indirectly …

I am so glade to know that you are seeing a therapist for your PTSD and IED. I am not a professional in this field, but I truly believe this is the best first step. Please never give up…[Read more]

Dear Misty,

You don’t need to hide from him. It is your fear that feeds his power. It doesn’t matter if he know your location. You can call the police anytime if you have concern for your safety.

Please also call the helpline for more resources:
National Domestic Violence (US) at 1-800-799-SAFE (7233)

May Angels Around
Protect and Guide You

Dear Nason, wake up, please wake up …

He is taking advantage of your weakness and executing his plan to take away your strength and freedom. An abusive relationship like this will only get worse. For you daughter and for yourself, please make the RIGHT decision to leave NOW.

The police cannot help you if you are willingly stay with him and…[Read more]

Dear William,

Travelers Aid should be able to help you and your family:

Family Guidance Center

2358 Fairlane Drive, Building E, Montgomery, AL , 36116
Phone: (334) 270-4100
Website: http://familyguidancecenter.org/

1605 5th Avenue North, Birmingham, AL, 35203
Phone: (205) 322-5426
Website: http://www.travelersaidbirmingham.org/

You can also…[Read more]

Dear Kristy,

Let’s look at one thing at a time:

If your relationship relies on "obey him at all costs" and "being submissive to my partner", then it sounds to me more like slavery than love.

I am not sure why this has anything to do with religion or the Bible being true or not, unless your "him" and "partner" here is referring God.

If you…[Read more]

Dear Jimmy,

Which city you are in? Is there any shelter nearby that can help?

Multiple HHS agencies provide programs that improve the well-being of people with disabilities. Learn more about programs for people with disabilities and locate resources:

Disabilities (Healthfinder.gov)
Information about disabilities from healthfinder.gov, a…[Read more]

Dear Nor

Thank you for sharing your story.
If the relationship has been falling apart again and again, I think you will agree that both you and others share some responsibility. I believe you have been asking yourself many times and trying to find out what’s wrong …
 
Since it is harder to change others, it would be easier to change ourselves…[Read more]

Hi There, please don’t just assume and please keep asking for help.

You said "I can’t talk to my parents, or the guidance counselor, they can’t do anything. I can’t talk to a therapist, we can’t afford it. I can’t call a hotline, I don’t have minutes on my phone. I can’t talk to my friends, I don’t trust them. What should I do?".

If you tell…[Read more]

Dear Lisa,

I think you did great and achieve a lot. It is always difficult to change the routine and habit, so please don’t give up.

You have been taking good care of others and I think it is time for you to take good care of yourself. I would suggest a gym membership, health club, meditation, and some other local event/courses that you might…[Read more]

I have to disagree. Life is a fair!

Please see how Mother Teresa describe it:

Life is an opportunity, benefit from it.
Life is beauty, admire it.
Life is a dream, realize it.
Life is a challenge, meet it.
Life is a duty, complete it.
Life is a game, play it.
Life is a promise, fulfill it.
Life is sorrow, overcome it.
Life is a song, sing…[Read more]

Dear Maggie,

True, there are always people just don’t know what to say or don’t care enough, but I would believe that’s not the majority.

I would look at this from a different perspective:
You must be a wonderful person to others around. Your strength, kindness, and being a great listener make them want to open up to you and share with you their…[Read more]

Dear Loca,

You have my respect. I think you are a strong fighter and has been trying your best to handle the challenges life throws at you.

We are not born equal. You were raised in a toxic "pond". Without a healthy environment, resources, and guidance, you made some mistakes and fall. However, you stand up, again and again. I am sure you can…[Read more]

Hi Karl,

I will be very honest and to the point:

We should invest in relationships that are rewarding to both parties. This relationship you are having is hurting you and others, and the other party don’t want to commit to it at all. It is killing you. Please stop. You deserve much better than this. You will find the true love you have been…[Read more]