Dear Nason, wake up, please wake up …
He is taking advantage of your weakness and executing his plan to take away your strength and freedom. An abusive relationship like this will only get worse. For you daughter and for yourself, please make the RIGHT decision to leave NOW.
The police cannot help you if you are willingly stay with him and being submissive. I understand it is scary to leave a "home" and venture out into unknown, but if you and your light are living in hell right now, nothing will be worse running away.
Nason, I would sincerely hope you can gather all your strength left and fight for your physical freedom RIGHT NOW. Call the National Domestic Violence (US) at 1-800-799-SAFE (7233), National Sexual Assault Hotline (US) at 1-800-656-HOPE (4673), and 911 RIGHT NOW and ask to be escorted to a safe location. An old colleague, friends’ friend, remote family, local shelter, churches, and organizations could help one way or another. Can also call 211 for referral.
Once you regain your physical freedom, you can work on your financial freedom by getting a job.
Nason, life begins at the end of your comfort zone. Please do the right thing for you and your daughter NOW.