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I have live with my boyfriend for 4 years, he has to have control, and he gets mad at the littlest things. He just up and says he cannot take anymore, and wants us out. I have fibromyalgia and have chronic pain daily. I don't know what to do who to turn to because there is no one. What do I do?? I can't take her to a shelter, or my Mother's because she cannot be around my son who lives there and is an alcoholic. It is so hard for me everyday. I get numb and feel paralyzed, please pray for my Daughter & I. Cheyenne & Kim. Can;t get housing as there is a 2 year waiting list....  Please pray for us. She loves her school is on the A/B Honor roll, and will be devastated.... Please help me lead me in the right direction so so so lost & alone..... God Bless You All Any help would be appreciated
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Profile Photo by dixon (450 points)  
Maybe your first question is - is your boyfriend special? do you love him? If so - take some time to open to that truth - and then see his unacceptable behaviour in a different light. Try to see it with compassion - as if he is a little boy - fearful and needing control. Open to him about your love and that he is special - and be truthful with him about your pain caused by his behaviour - complement him on his loving behavour and all the good things.


maybe there is something in you fighting control? if so take a look at that - go inside and ask yourself - if this feeling comes from me as a younger child, what age would I be? then love that younger child, see her, cuddle her - and ask her help in situations with your man.


sometimes we make mistakes by becoming too involved in 'the problem' - just stop and see if you can be the solution

sending love
Profile Photo by kmcuthbertsonaol-com (110 points)  
Your answer makes no sense at all.... Thanks for trying but I don't have time to analyze this man. I have a child to worry about & need help. Yes I love him and he is a good person but I stay on pins & needles.... You have no idea.

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